30/09/2026
Do you feel like you keep losing yourself?
Finally got another episode out today. It’s been a long time because I lost myself… again.
We keep circling through this, all of us as humans. The cycle of healing and falling back. Sometimes it feels like such a vicious cycle, and you start asking yourself, What’s wrong with me?
But looking closer, there is always growth. There is always more awareness. There is always more to learn.
The pain isn’t there to break you. The pain is there to guide you, to get you to learn, to wake you up, to remind you who you are and where to go.
And so this happened to me again. I completely lost myself, and I’ve been quiet on this page and with my work.
I’m realising that this isn’t going to be a short-term fix for anybody. This is for the long haul. Becoming more ourselves isn’t a straight line. We have setbacks. We can crash, and we can speed forward too.
Life is unpredictable and can’t be controlled. That is the pain, and that is the reason to live it: the not knowing.
If you feel like you’re spiralling again, you haven’t failed. You’re human, and you don’t have to abandon yourself while you find your way through.
If this resonates, jump onto YouTube and watch this episode, where I talk about some raw truths about these pains that break us, or seem to break us, and how they affect me too.
I think it’s really important that the people you go to for help with your pain have also sat in the darkness themselves, so they can truly hold space for you.
So if you’re a deeply feeling person going through heartache right now, struggling in a relationship or with personal development, shoot me a message. You don’t have to do this alone.
