28/10/2026
If it leaves your account almost as fast as it lands, thereâs usually a quieter question sitting underneath.
Do I actually deserve to have this?
For a lot of us, receiving feels unsafe.
Someone compliments you and you hand one straight back. Someone does something kind and youâre buying them flowers the next day.
Money comes in and goes straight back out.
Itâs the same pattern. Your body hasnât learnt how to hold good things, so it gives them away before it has to feel them.
Money, pleasure, love.
Your capacity to hold one is your capacity to hold them all.
So the work isnât a tighter budget.
Itâs learning to let something good stay.