Nikki J - Medium

22/10/2026

22/10/2026

Feeling all cosy - perfect weather for a Reading and Healing
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21/10/2026

I came across this post this morning and I very much agree

This is why I try not to judge anyone, as it’s who they are as a person ( inside ) not on the outside or what they do. Does not matter what anyone looks like.
So tattoos don’t bother me, if they smoke , if they drink or whatever anyone wants to do. As long as that dosent hurt me.

Are they kind to you ?
Do they treat you with respect ?
Are they polite to you ?
Have they ever hurt you ?

I try to treat everyone the same

We are all human, as long as we are here we all deserve kindness and understanding.

Money does NOT make you a better person
Nice cars , nice houses , high paying jobs

They all mean nothing unless you’re a kind person. A person who can think of others.

I am here to help NOT TO JUDGE
Everyone is here to learn
KINDNESS IS KEY

Do no harm is my motto.
HERE TO HELP AND HEAL 💛💛💛

SAFE PERSON - SAFE SPACE

21/10/2026

What does everyone see with these photos ??

My ring camera alerted me and woke me up. This was what was on the camera, and went on for over an hour. Looks like a gathering and more came in.

Interested in asking what others see.

20/10/2026

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19/10/2026

ENERGY TRANSFER
Are you carrying someone else’s energy?

Have you ever felt happy and relaxed, then spent time with someone and suddenly felt exhausted, anxious or emotionally drained?

In spiritual practices, this is often called energy transfer.

It is believed that energy can be exchanged through:

* Physical touch, hugs and intimacy
* Conversations and emotional connections
* Arguments, anger and conflict
* Spending time around distressed people
* Being in certain homes or environments

What might you experience?

You may suddenly feel tired, emotional, overwhelmed, heavy or unsettled.

These feelings can also arise through empathy, stress and emotional contagion, rather than a literal transfer of energy.

Remember: You can support someone without carrying their emotional burdens.

Protect your wellbeing, set boundaries, ground yourself and take time to recharge.

Not everything you feel belongs to you.

19/10/2026

HAUNTED HOUSES

Is your house really haunted?

There is so much more to clearing a house than burning a sage stick.

Many people believe that when they feel an unusual presence in their home, they need to sage the house to remove a spirit.

But clearing the energy of a home and communicating with a spirit are two very different things.

Before assuming a house is haunted, there are many things I look at.

WHO?

* Who is living in the house, and who may have passed over?
* Who built the house?
* Who lived there previously?
* Have you lost loved ones who you feel may still be around you?

WHAT?

* What has happened in the house over the years?
* Has anyone passed away there?
* What have the current occupants been experiencing?
* What is the atmosphere like? Does it feel heavy, peaceful, uncomfortable or unsettled?

WHERE?

* What is the history of the land?
* Is the house built on land considered sacred?
* Could old furniture, antiques or personal possessions hold emotional or spiritual significance?
* Is there clutter or mess contributing to the feeling of heaviness?

AND WHAT ABOUT THE PEOPLE LIVING THERE?

This is something I believe is often overlooked.

Is anyone in the home experiencing:

* Grief, sadness or emotional pain?
* Anger, hurt or betrayal?
* Financial difficulties or relationship problems?
* Loneliness or feeling unsupported?
* Mental health challenges or overwhelming stress?
* Alcohol or substance-related difficulties?

These experiences do not mean someone is attracting spirits. But our emotional wellbeing, relationships and living environment can influence how a home feels.

CLEARING ENERGY IS NOT THE SAME AS CLEARING A SPIRIT.

Within my spiritual practice, I approach these as two very different things.

Burning sage may be a meaningful cleansing ritual, but it doesn’t tell you who or what you believe you are experiencing.

And if spirit is present, I like to know who it is and why they are there.

Imagine someone walking into your home and telling you to leave.

Wouldn’t you want to know why?

This is why you can have clearings and it gets worse or nothing changes.

We need to look at the reason they are there.

This is why I believe communication, understanding and respect are so important in mediumship.

WHO are you clearing?

WHAT are you clearing?

WHY are you clearing it?

And perhaps the most important question of all:

Does anything actually need to be cleared?

Sometimes the spirit wants to talk or have unresolved matters. Once they are brought up or looked at , they can happily pass over.

Not every unexplained sound, unusual feeling or unsettling experience means a house is haunted. There may also be ordinary environmental or practical explanations worth investigating.

I believe that when spiritual concerns are involved, an experienced medium can offer a thoughtful, respectful perspective rather than simply attempting to remove something without understanding it.

There is so much more to a home than its four walls.

Its history, its occupants, its memories and the experiences of the people living there all deserve consideration.

Your home should be somewhere you feel safe, supported and at peace.

And that is why, in my work, understanding always comes before clearing.

Nikki J – Medium

19/10/2026

New updated photo