12/10/2026
I thought I was fighting my body for so many years.
If I won the fight, my body would submit to my will.
This is a narrative common to athletes and the “no pain, no gain” mentality so many “tough people” pedal.
The problem with this narrative is that you are always taking something without asking what replenishes reserves.
If you fall too far down this path, you become no different from someone doing business in bad faith.
Stealing resources, duping, and then expecting a return customer.
At some point, the buck stops.
The aches and the pains graduate to more serious issues.
That little thing that used to hold you back, then pulls the emergency handbrake.
What then?
Tell your body to surrender again?
Some people try.
I know I did many times.
But eventually it just gets much worse.
That’s when you realise that it’s a two way street between your mind and your body.
You realise that it’s time to listen, time to meet somewhere.
To compromise.
And to find a path forward where you can rebuild trust in that relationship.
Together.