The Oak Sanctuary

21/10/2026

Serve spells that serve

A hundred and eighty moons ago

I broke

I knew exactly what I was losing

And it hurt

I tried deleting my brain with rum

That didn’t work

I played this bass for hours

This tune can go from sobbing sorrow to pure fu***ng rage and back and round and spiral again and again

That definitely worked better

But only for those few hours

And so the shadow came

I hung this beautiful instrument from a rope in the workshop where I’d been playing and I drove off. I knew where I was going but had no idea if I’d make it

Fu***ng muppet

By the will of my spirits i saw the sun rise and my northern kin fixed a bitch up

But in that turmoil part of me stayed lost and bound to a shadow

Like sleeping beauty this lady stayed asleep in her velvet lined crypt for far too many moons

Yeah all right in a case in the loft but either way that was a sorry plight right?

Yet she was the spell that healed all along

Meet shadows with gratitude and magic will return

And so?

Witchling Season 2 begins 😂 😍 xx

28/09/2026

Thank you to .withcharlie for creating and holding such a magickal space. I was called to break the spell when I realised that I had to let go of a vigil I’d held throughout my life. To let go of the belief that I could change outcomes that were never mine to control. That desire was born of love but seeming failure leads to frustration and resentment which is ultimately harmful and self defeating.

When we let go and let our own lights shine regardless we lift up others through the ripples of energy we give and receive.

That’s the strength of the collective to me and why all the communities we build, no matter how, will keep us all going and returning to a peace that should never have been up for grabs.

Blessed be 🙏 xx

13/08/2026

A simple fire to mark the dark moon and solar eclipse at the start of something beautiful. Yesterday was the perfect moment to pull this card. The same beach I’ve been to with my kin since I was a child. Some are gone now but for those of us that are yet to pass is there a better way to honour those we love than simply remembering? If we don’t fully remember who we were can we ever be truly whole? ###

01/07/2026

Everyone can see you’ve got it all together.

Your ducks are in a row. The spreadsheet is up to date. Your boss thinks you’re killing it.

And yet.

The rewards aren’t rewarding anymore.

There’s a hollow feeling and you don’t know why.

Are you following your map or someone else’s?

The path was laid out. But did you really choose it?

Can you remember where your heart lies?

Your head has been shouting out directions. Your heart has been whispering and hoping to be heard.

Purple Tent is a space with no performance. Just two hours to speak what’s true and let it be heard.

Come and see where your heart lies.

The Purple Tent
Sunday 5th July · 2–4pm · Fareham
First circle is free.

Hampshire

26/06/2026

Not everything on the horizon is clear.

A brutal banking collapse.
A divorce.
A toxic relationship.

Twenty years building a consultancy.
Over 140 business owners.
Digital strategies that had to earn their keep.

And not one of them knew any of it.

Because that's what you do.

You show up. You deliver.

You keep the version of yourself that's quietly screaming hidden away.

Until you can't anymore.

I know what it's like to reach for the wrong thing just to strip back the noise.

There is no map for being true to yourself.

It isn't easy. It can be terrifying.

You just find the steps that feel true. And you move towards your horizon.

I can't give you a map. But I can walk alongside.

Come and speak your truth for a couple of hours. First one's on me.

The Purple Tent
Sunday 5th July · 2–4pm · Fareham

https://theoaksanctuary.uk/offerings/the-purple-tent/

13/06/2026

Yesterday I was worn out. Weeks of work and I was losing the will.

I learned years ago to be kind to my future self. Easier said than done, but really it’s the only answer, whether times are flowing or turbulent.

So today this fire sign with Aquarius rising is in her happy place. Sat in the hot tub under a beautiful sun, doing her nails. 💅

Take some time for yourself, my lovelies. You are worth it. 💕 ###

19/05/2026

01/05/2026

27/04/2026

On the eve of Beltane, as blossom colours the land and the wheel turns into summer, the Flower Moon rises to her fullest.

Two thresholds meeting at the midpoint between the Spring Equinox and the Summer Solstice.

On this night fires were lit across this land. Farmers drove their cattle between twin bonfires to cleanse and protect as they moved to summer pasture.

This is a beautiful moment to release under the moon of flourishing. To truly celebrate the fertility of the land and our own creative force.

If you have a story you’ve been telling yourself for far too long, this is the night to finally let it go. To make way for what wants to bloom in you.

Join me for a ritual woven with sharing, meditation, fire and just a little magic ✨

📆 Thursday 30th April
🕖 7–8.30pm�🧙🏻‍♀️ Limited to 8 spaces
🔥 Reserve your place via link in bio