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SJR Counselling Hi, I’m Sam, I help children and young people feel empowered and understood through creativity and play, bringing a little sunshine to family life 💛

Resources I Use: Stacking ChairsIt looks like a simple game of balancing tiny chairs, but I can use this resource to exp...
06/11/2026

Resources I Use: Stacking Chairs

It looks like a simple game of balancing tiny chairs, but I can use this resource to explore so much more with my clients.

As we build, things wobble. Things fall. Sometimes one small change can throw everything off balance.

And it’s not always about brushing it off and starting again.

The chairs can help us explore what balance looks like in our own lives.

What’s weighing you down?

What makes you feel lighter?

How much time are you spending with friends or family? Are you getting enough time alone? Where does self-care fit? What about school, food, physical pain, social situations or everything else you’re carrying?

Each chair can represent something different, giving us a creative way to explore feelings, mental health and the things happening in our lives without relying solely on words.

Sometimes we don’t need to learn how to balance more.

Sometimes we need to notice what we’re already carrying.

You do not have to keep pushing through exhaustion ☀️
06/11/2026

You do not have to keep pushing through exhaustion ☀️

This week’s podcast I’m chatting with Geraldine Crane, a spiritual hypnotherapist, about healing mother wounds and stepp...
05/11/2026

This week’s podcast I’m chatting with Geraldine Crane, a spiritual hypnotherapist, about healing mother wounds and stepping out of self-doubt into real self-love.

A powerful and thought-provoking listen 💛

Not every child wants to talk — and that’s okay.Creative space still helps feelings settle and be processed safely.Free ...
04/11/2026

Not every child wants to talk — and that’s okay.
Creative space still helps feelings settle and be processed safely.
Free colouring pages are available on my website.

Crafty Tuesday – Firework Feelings Art!With Bonfire Night just around the corner, this week’s Crafty Tuesday is all abou...
03/11/2026

Crafty Tuesday – Firework Feelings Art!

With Bonfire Night just around the corner, this week’s Crafty Tuesday is all about fireworks, colours and feelings!

Fireworks can be exciting, colourful, loud and sometimes a little overwhelming.

And actually, our feelings can be a bit like that too.

Sometimes they burst out unexpectedly. Sometimes we experience lots of different emotions all at once.

This simple activity is a lovely way to explore those feelings through creativity.

What you’ll need:

•⁠ ⁠Black paper or card
•⁠ ⁠Paint in different colours
•⁠ ⁠Empty cardboard toilet roll tubes
•⁠ ⁠Scissors
•⁠ ⁠A plate or tray for the paint

How to make your firework art:

1.⁠ ⁠Carefully cut little strips around one end of the cardboard tube and fold them outwards to create a firework shape.
2.⁠ ⁠Dip the strips into paint.
3.⁠ ⁠Press them onto your black paper to create colourful fireworks.
4.⁠ ⁠Repeat using different colours and sizes.

As you’re creating, you could talk about what each colour represents.

Yellow might be happiness or excitement.

Blue might be sadness or calm.

Red might be anger or frustration.

Green might represent feeling safe or relaxed.

There are no right or wrong answers. Let your child choose what the colours mean to them.

You could even ask:

•⁠ ⁠If your feelings were fireworks today, what would they look like?
•⁠ ⁠Are they big and loud or small and quiet?
•⁠ ⁠Can you have more than one feeling at the same time?

Sometimes children find it much easier to show us how they’re feeling through colours, pictures and play than by trying to explain it in words.

And that’s what I love about creative activities. They give us another way to connect and communicate.

Will you be giving this one a go? I’d love to see your firework creations!

Some children become quieter when they’re struggling emotionally. Others become louder, more reactive or clingier. Every...
02/11/2026

Some children become quieter when they’re struggling emotionally. Others become louder, more reactive or clingier. Every child communicates distress differently ☀️

Sometimes the child who reacts is the one who gets blamed.Imagine being picked on every day.Little comments. Someone lau...
01/11/2026

Sometimes the child who reacts is the one who gets blamed.

Imagine being picked on every day.

Little comments. Someone laughing when you get something wrong. Being deliberately left out. Someone doing things they know will upset you.

You try to ignore it.

You try to walk away.

But eventually, you've had enough.

You shout, push someone away or say something unkind back.

And suddenly, you're the one who's in trouble.

This can happen to children who have been experiencing bullying, but it can also happen when a child is struggling with friendships, emotional regulation or feeling misunderstood.

Of course, we need to help children understand that hurting others isn't okay.

But we also need to understand what led to that reaction.

When a child becomes overwhelmed, they might not have the words or skills to explain everything that's been happening.

Instead of focusing only on the behaviour, we can try asking:
• What happened before you got upset?
• Has this happened before?
• How were you feeling at the time?
• What could we do to help you feel safer?

Sometimes children need help recognising when they're reaching their limit, finding ways to express their feelings and knowing which adults they can turn to.

And sometimes they simply need somebody to believe them and listen.

Understanding a child's behaviour doesn't mean excusing it. It means giving them the support they need to respond differently next time.

Have you ever noticed how quickly we focus on a child's reaction rather than what happened beforehand?

I'd love to hear your thoughts.

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