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30/10/2026

Talking to the SheerLuxe girls about my crazy wellness and fitness routine which I love!

28/10/2026

My thoughts sway from, I can’t believe this is all real….. to wait this is real and I’m happily exhausted from it. Taking it all in day by day!

27/10/2026

So how’s it going Tobi? Will you go back to a 9-5 corporate role? Questions I get quite a bit at the moment. I guess this is the honest answer … and I welcome all the questions because every time they cause me to stop and think.

Honestly, I don’t quite know. There is still heaps that I am figuring out and working out my identity at the same time. So this is for you, if you have ever felt like you want more than your 9-5 and you are trying to find your way there.

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26/10/2026

Leadership books I’d recommend to anyone who wants to become a better leader. I think the best leaders never stop learning, and these five have shaped how I lead people, build teams.

Which one are you reading first?

25/10/2026

How can I find the words to describe life lately? I often say that life is a beautiful roller coaster full of extreme highs and sometimes really devastating lows. And that is probably the best description of life lately.

And do you know what? I am very guilty of only capturing the highlights, because I’m not very good at getting my phone out when things aren’t amazing. But I’m trying to capture more, because one day you will look back and see how far you’ve come, how things have evolved, or what you were able to walk through in spite of it all.

I actually learned a great tip from Ryan Serhant. If there’s a day when things feel awful, he marks in his calendar how he was feeling that day. Then he looks back six months later and realises that the feeling has passed and he feels so much better about the situation. It doesn’t necessarily change how bad the situation was, but he feels so much better about it.

That’s something I’m taking forward. I hope you enjoy this collection of some of what life has been like so far.

21/10/2026

Steal my nighttime routine AD

By evening, my body feels tired, but my mind struggles to switch off, so I’ve built little cues into my evening to tell it the day is done.

Laptop shut, a spritz of Own Time to clock off, then I’m very generous with the Deep Sleep Pillow Spray before lights out.

That’s how my 5am starts feel a little more possible, because my best mornings are won the night before.

19/10/2026

I am learning so much from my boy! He’s showing me the power of showing up and the impact it can have on others around you! I couldn’t be prouder!

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14/10/2026

Dress like you already believe in yourself…

This is what I’ve worn recently (mainly to the SheerLuxe office) that proves this has always been my mantra, whatever stage I’m at on this rollercoaster of life.

There is just something about putting the effort in that gives me the extra bad B energy boost, that I need on a regular basis.

Showing up for yourself in this way IS the ultimate act of self respect and self love. It’s showing people that you are important, irrespective of whether they believe it or not.

I’ve learnt that people take their cue from you. When you show up like you believe in yourself, they start to believe it too! The kids stuff can wait an extra 5 mins for you to put on your fave lippy! Trust me x

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13/10/2026

Sometimes I want to shout out that not everything on the gram is what it seems. Not that people intentionally deceive, not that at all, it’s just that our lives are not on display 24/7. If they were you would know that everyone is working through something.

My blend at the moment includes being a mum, supporting my wider family and figuring out what life outside of the corporate 9-5 looks like for the time being. I would be lying if I said it was easy but I refuse to give up!

12/10/2026

I know I’m not the only one. Isn’t it funny how the things we used to roll our eyes at when our parents said them to us growing up are now the exact same things we’re saying to our kids?

I hear myself mid sentence and think, where did that come from? Then I realise. I know exactly where it came from.

It’s like fashion. Everything comes back around.
What’s something you hated hearing as a kid that you now find yourself saying to your own children? Tell me in the comments.

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