01/11/2026
Sometimes I wonder what my life would look like if I’d been Dad.
I’m a doctor, a mother of three, and I juggle a lot of the day-to-day running of our family.
I have a wonderfully supportive husband who is an incredible father, so this isn’t about him.
It’s about the emotional labour that so many women carry, often alongside demanding careers.
The remembering, planning, anticipating, organising. The hundred little things that nobody necessarily sees, but that keep family life moving.
And I know I’m incredibly fortunate. I love my work, I love being a mother, and I love the busy, chaotic life we’ve created.
But I do sometimes wonder whether I’d feel quite the same weight of responsibility if I were Dad.
I don’t want to do less of what I love. I want us to recognise more of what women do.
And perhaps the answer isn’t to become better at juggling everything, but to question why we feel we have to.
Here’s to raising daughters who know they can do anything, without growing up believing they have to do everything. ❤️
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