15/10/2026
Beyond the Highlight Reel 🌿
I desperately wanted to breastfeed my babies. But when my third baby had a tongue-tie, something I wanted so badly felt much harder than I expected.
Even after having two babies before, I still questioned whether I was doing it right, whether my baby was getting enough, and whether what we were experiencing was normal.
Because the truth is, every baby is different. And having done it before doesn't mean you automatically have all the answers.
If you're struggling with breastfeeding, please know that you don't have to figure it all out alone. There is support available, and you deserve to know where to find it.
🤎 .leche.league - for mum to mum breastfeeding support worldwide.
🤎 - for feeding advice and support, including access to lactation consultants.
One-on-one phone and video calls available with a lactation consultant. To find out more or book in, call PlunketLine on 0800 933 922. You can also book online through their website, www.plunket.org.nz (search ‘lactation consultant’).
Breastfeeding cafés are available Monday - Friday, 11am-12pm. To find out more or book your spot, please call PlunketLine on 0800 933 922 and select option 2.
🤎 Birthing Centres – The Milk Café: The Wright Family Foundation Birthing Centres in Lower Hutt, Tauranga, Palmerston North and Mangere all offer Milk Café, a breastfeeding support group led by a local lactation consultant.
🤎 Your midwife or lactation consultant, for individual support with latch difficulties, concerns about milk supply or helping your baby get enough milk.
🤎 Local mum-to-mum groups: Check out SmartStart or ask your LMC or Plunket nurse what’s available in your community.
🤎 Rotary Community Breast Milk Bank - for donor milk in Canterbury
(If you are looking for donor milk your Midwife or yourself can call 03 375 6281 and leave a message. A volunteer will get back to you as soon as possible).
And if breastfeeding doesn't work out for you, or you decide it's not right for you, that's okay too. Bottle feeding is not failing. Your baby needs to be fed, and you deserve support whatever your feeding journey looks like.
At Oak & Alchemy, I love exploring natural approaches to wellbeing and supporting mums through the postpartum chapter. If you'd like to know more about homeopathy and how it can help you on your journey, you're always welcome to reach out.
You deserve to feel supported, heard and cared for, too. 🤎
What do you wish you'd known about feeding your baby?