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Fabi Moy, SLP IBCLC

Speech Language Pathologist, Intl Board Certified Lactation Consultant, Feeding Therapist, Specialist in Orofacial Myofunctional Disorders

10/28/2026

There’s a reason I call S the “snakey sound.”

Producing a clear S involves coordination of the jaw, tongue, and airflow, and children can have several different types of errors.

That means hearing “my child can’t say S” doesn’t tell me enough to know what’s actually happening.

A speech-language pathologist looks at how the sound is being produced, not just whether the child can say it.

Save this if your child is working on S, and reach out to an SLP if you’re unsure what type of error you’re hearing.

10/26/2026

In feeding therapy, food play isn’t just about making a mess.

We might look at a food, learn its name, smell it, touch it, or bring it toward the mouth before ever asking a child to taste it. These experiences can help an unfamiliar food become more familiar while taking some of the pressure away from eating.

Feeling safe comes before learning.

Share this with a parent and head to Latch to Language on Substack for a deeper dive into feeding therapy.

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10/22/2026

Breast augmentation doesn’t automatically mean you won’t be able to breastfeed.

The answer is often quite possibly, because every situation is different. One important factor is why the augmentation was needed in the first place. If there was insufficient glandular tissue before surgery, that can still affect milk production afterward.

This is why understanding your individual history before baby arrives matters.

If you’ve had breast augmentation, consider meeting with an IBCLC prenatally so you can get your ducks in a row and create a feeding plan.

10/21/2026

A tongue-tie release isn’t always a simple yes or no. Sometimes, the answer is not yet.

If a child already has significant oral aversions, a very limited food repertoire, or difficulty tolerating sensory input, adding a surgical wound to the mouth may not be the right next step.

More tongue mobility alone doesn’t automatically resolve feeding challenges.

Sometimes we need to build skills, safety, and readiness first.

If you’re considering a tongue-tie release, make sure the conversation includes more than anatomy. Reach out if you have questions about readiness and function.

10/19/2026

If you see us blowing bubbles during feeding therapy, I promise we’re working!

Blowing bubbles requires your child to round their lips and practice controlled airflow while doing something that feels fun instead of stressful.

Play gives us an opportunity to work on foundational skills while keeping the child calm, engaged, and ready to learn.

Fun and function can absolutely happen at the same time.

Save this activity to try at home, and follow along for more Feeding Therapy 101.

10/16/2026

Family gatherings can be overwhelming for children who are picky or restricted eaters, especially when everyone expects them to try something new.

A little preparation can make a big difference. Offering preferred foods beforehand, setting realistic expectations, and giving children opportunities to participate without pressure can help make the experience more comfortable.

Remember, family gatherings are about connection, not how much food ends up on your child's plate.

Save this carousel for your next family gathering, and share it with someone who could use a little extra support.

10/15/2026

A history of breast reduction can affect milk production, but it doesn’t give us the entire story.

How the surgery was performed, how much glandular tissue was affected, and your individual anatomy can all influence what breastfeeding looks like. That’s why I tell families the answer is often quite possibly, rather than promising yes or assuming no.

Preparation gives us the best place to start.

Save this if you’ve had a breast reduction and are planning to breastfeed.

10/14/2026

Sometimes the answer to a tongue tie release isn’t yes or no. It’s not yet.

A release is an oral surgical procedure, and readiness matters. Oral aversions, sensory sensitivities, feeding skills, family support, and the ability to manage aftercare all need to be considered before moving forward.

More tongue mobility alone doesn’t automatically resolve feeding challenges. The goal is to set the child and family up for success.

Save this if you’re considering a tongue tie release and wondering whether the timing is right.

10/12/2026

Yes, your child can have a feeding therapy session where we don’t use food at all.

Sometimes we need to build the foundational skills first, like lip closure, tongue movement, and strong chewing.

We can work on those skills through play and targeted activities while also helping the child feel safe and comfortable before expanding their food repertoire.

Because children learn best when they’re not in fight-or-flight.

Follow along for Feeding Therapy 101. Next up: why blowing bubbles can actually count as feeding therapy.

10/09/2026

“Tongue tie is a fallacy.” I think that takes the conversation too far.

I absolutely agree that infant feeding is about much more than the tongue. Palate, sucking skills, suck-swallow-breathe coordination, the baby’s overall function, and the breastfeeding parent all need to be considered. And I agree that families should think carefully before any procedure.

But a release not immediately fixing a latch doesn’t mean tongue tie doesn’t exist. It means one procedure was never the whole answer.

What do you think? Let’s have a thoughtful conversation about this one in the comments.

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