05/03/2025
Many of you know I’ve worked as an RN and APRN for over 25 years in the ER prior to getting to do what I do now. What you may not know is that my passion for mental health began with Project EMILY—a mission born from a moment that changed me forever.
10 years ago, at the height of the opioid epidemic, I met a young woman named Emily. Just 18, she came into my ER after an overdose, leaving behind a note asking not to be saved. But her parents’ love brought her in… and that day, something shifted in me. For the first time in a long time, I felt again—deep empathy for someone I had once labeled as “those people.”
You learn quickly in emergency medicine that emotional detachment is a necessary skill. You can't fall apart when a child dies, when a mother screams, when a young man flatlines. You keep moving, because someone else needs you. But that separation—the emotional armor—comes at a cost. It builds a wall. And behind that wall, you begin to forget that every patient is someone’s child, someone’s friend, someone who once laughed and danced and cried. It was at this moment that wall had fallen. Emily looked like she could have been my daughter or my daughter's friend at the time. Just an ordinary country girl from Putnam County, Ohio.
When I asked her why she tried he**in, she told me a story I’ll never forget: heartbreak, a party, one hit of he**in that changed everything. She said, “No one ever told me that if I tried it just one time, I would never get to stop.” She continued onto say, "I'd rather die feeling happy than to live in this hell." Her pain, her loss, her humanity—it echoed through me. It could have been me. It could be any of us.
That moment became my mission: Project EMILY — to Educate, Motivate, and Inspire others to make lasting change. "Ly" means to change into. We all have the capacity to transform.
Mental health matters. It shows up as:
Depression
Anxiety
PTSD
Trauma
Addiction
Eating disorders
Bipolar disorder
OCD
Postpartum depression
ADHD
Suicidal thoughts
Burnout
Grief
Loneliness
And more…
We all struggle with something, we are human. Let’s make space for vulnerability. Let’s allow people to share before they break under the weight of guilt and shame. Be kind. Be compassionate. Be a safe place.
Let’s stop the stigma and start the conversation.