11/04/2026
You cannot punish away poverty. And you cannot fix a family in crisis with another attendance letter. Somewhere along the way, we’ve started treating chronic absenteeism as though every empty desk represents a family that doesn’t care or a child who simply refuses to come to school. But what if we’re missing the bigger picture? Behind that empty desk may be homelessness, anxiety, transportation challenges, medical needs, or a family doing everything they can just to get through the day. I’ve spent years working with students who struggle to attend school, and I can tell you that sometimes the most important information isn’t found in an attendance report. It’s found in a conversation, a phone call, or a knock on someone’s door. Attendance matters. Accountability matters. But understanding the barriers matters just as much. We need to stop expecting consequences alone to solve problems that require connection, resources, and support. Imagine what could happen if we approached chronic absenteeism with curiosity before judgment. If we invested as much energy into understanding why students aren’t coming as we do tracking how often they’re gone. This is a conversation we need to be having across the country. Before another warning letter, ask another question. Absence is a signal. Connection is the intervention. What is your school doing to address the reasons behind chronic absenteeism? 🩷