06/12/2026
So ... My family has gone thru so much. My belief is that every person has the right to feel how they feel, yes that means that it may hurt another person, but if that person gives 2 sh*ts they shut up and listen to the fact they hurt the person saying so, they get to apologize on the person who was hurt's time, not the person who did the hurting's time. And from there if there is a relationship still wanted you work on it constructively. But feelings are perfect and flawed somehow. There is always going to , be someone who will say you should do this or u shouldn't do that, but unless ur ruining someone's life tuffen up. Thing, s are not like they used to be 30 plus years ago either. And no one controls the person next to them. Stop side blaming. Talk about what actually happened. Then ur feelings. But not what I didnt do. And btw I was shunned. My girls were shunned. By my complete family. Because of what happened to them. Ppl were told I was telling my girls to lie. Slandering my name. Some thing said finally after 20 plus plus years .. minimally and we r wrong again. Sorry. But we have stood on truth this entire time it is not my fault u didn't believe us. And I'm done apologizing to narcissists
