30/10/2026
At 60, I'm beginning to realise that happiness isn't about having more. It's about needing less.
Since turning 60 in July, I've been reflecting a lot on life, happiness and what really matters.
I've spent much of my life working hard, building a business, learning, creating and helping others. And I still have so much I want to do!
But something is changing.
I recently came across happiness researcher Dr Arthur Brooks, who talks about how, in the second half of life, happiness comes from subtracting rather than constantly adding more.
More money, more success, more achievements, more things. When is enough, enough?
I'm realising that I don't need to keep proving myself. I want to enjoy what I've created, spend time with the people I love, keep learning, make a difference and simply enjoy being me.
It doesn't mean I've lost my ambition. I think I'm just becoming clearer about what really matters.
One question Brooks asks really stayed with me:
"Would this still matter to me if no one else knew I achieved it?"
Perhaps growing older isn't about slowing down. It's about letting go of what no longer matters and making more room for what does.
And maybe that's one of the beautiful gifts of turning 60.
For those of you getting older alongside me, have you noticed your priorities changing too?