04/11/2026
I recently overheard one of my own kids saying how he wished he could just concentrate and be ‘normal’.
It really stuck with me, because we've always tried to be neuroaffirming in our parenting, in the things we say and the way we approach things. We certainly don't always get it right, and we're still learning along the way too.
But it made me think about how hard he's always trying, and whether, without even realising it, we've spent so much time focusing on the things he finds difficult and how we can support him with those, that we've forgotten to remind him of all the things that make him who he is.
Of course we want our kids to learn, grow and develop new skills. But more than anything, we want them to know that they belong, exactly as they are.
These neurodivergent affirmations are for the kids who might need to hear that a little more often.