05/10/2026
The parent I was before this journey began and the parent I am now are two very different people. π
Id love to take a moment to just talk about this as Im sure many of you can also relate.
Before....
I thought I knew what patience was.
I thought I knew what advocacy looked like.
I thought I knew what unconditional love meant.
I thought I knew what strength felt like.
Then when this journey began.....
Everything I thought I knew has been quietly and completely rewritten.
Thinking about it - the patience I have now is not the patience I was born with.
My patience has been built......
In waiting rooms.
In appointments that run overtime
In mornings that start hard and somehow still become good days.
In showing, teaching and explaining the same thing over-and-over until it 'clicks'.
When I have had to repeat myself multiple times a week on the phone, in person or via emails to teachers, new therapists, supports, Doctors to ensure they understand and have patience with my loved ones.
In moments where I have nothing left to give, yet somehow find something anyway.
The advocacy I have now is not something I studied or read about >>> It grew (and continues to grow) out of love.
Out of sitting across from people and refusing to accept less than what my individuals deserve..
Out of learning the system not because I have wanted to.....but because they need me to. π
I am not the same person I was before this journey
>>> I am more.
More patient. More present. More certain about what matters.
More capable of a love that has no conditions and no limits.
Taking notice of the little things and celebrating them in the moment and beyond.
This journey has grown me in ways that nothing else could have.
And honestly, I would not trade this version of myself for anything. π
What has this journey grown in YOU that was not there before?
Drop it in the comments below.
π Jewels Harrison
Founder, Unique StarShine
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