24/10/2026
Coaching on the Twin Flame Journey
Just one of the reasons why I’ve been even more selective, when it comes to working with Divine Feminine on the Twin Flame Journey, as no powerful woman likes to be told at the end of separation, that he’s no where near where you imagine him to be. Ascended women always like to think the best of someone, and especially when it comes to their DM. While in the earlier stages of this journey they’re quick to pedestal their DM, for the inner power that they know he retains. Returning does not always mean that he’s returning for you. That full potential that’s been felt for years, can sometimes be more than a decade away.
Finding the right words to articulate, without sounding offensive, how little work he’s really done on himself, during their time apart, is almost impossible when processing at speed. Using direct messaging vocab from 5D, I often don’t deliver with the softness that some people require, or are used to from Fourth Dimensional relationships. Friends in the 3D world, who are not offering information at speed and moving a lot slower, tend to be more in agreement through more pleasant interactions with less substance to offer. I’m a small dose person because to be honest, most of the population is not used to living in such raw honesty. Take it or leave it, as we always tend to gravitate towards those who appreciate the qualities we hold and repel from those who do not. Being blunt and very direct, my job is to deliver a message from the higher realms as it channels through. I don’t always have the time or the focus to deliver something so polished that it sounds soft enough, or politically correct like every other person whose watching what they say.
Sometimes I’m dealing with too many things at once, and have several future conversations filtering through while I’m having a conversation in the physical in real time. This I pay a price for, as it drains me out and I can no longer hold the Fifth, dropping into trance as I move between Dimensions. This is the reason I needed to become extra selective, on who gets energetic access and who I give my time to. I’m never going to be the shallow, softly spoken friend who talks small talk and formalities, delivering softly, quietly and politely while I’m offering those I’m connected to an insight into a different level of consciousness. I say what I see is happening whether it’s the outcome you’d like to hear or not, I don’t particularly care. If you want bu****it talk, stick to friends in the 3D. As I can see from a future timeline, I’m far more likely to say things exactly as it is and this can trigger people who become very defensive to the Twin Flame connection. This is why I rarely like to deal with people individually these days, choosing to work more collectively through land, becomes a lot more suited to my patience and tolerance, 25 years into this thing.
When I explain that his emotional availability and growth, and it’s usually minimal in comparison to what the Divine Feminine has achieved in that period of separation, came from the yank of your acceleration into the higher realms, once you no longer have the density of an anchor holding you in 4D, they suddenly get defensive for a man that they haven’t heard one word from in years. If only one remains the highest version of themselves in sacrifice and service, there always seems to remain a full Dimension/decade between Twin Flames. The DF, if she allows it, still becomes the only one energetically carrying the full weight of the connection, again. The masculine comes back in to balance, re-steady himself and that’s all he requires, because it’s not what he wants. He wants his freedom, he wants it all, and as soon as you’re back on path again, pouring into yourself, he wants you, because you’re no longer feeding him energetically and there’s a chance another man will steal that focus once you've fully retracted. This is where the connection suddenly starts to syphon and the DF loses all her gains, without any awareness that all that power has been redistributed, away from herself and back into hope.
Remember that the DF is the higher Chakras, resonating from the Crown, Third Eye, Throat and Heart, while always remaining in truth. Whereas, the DM is the lower more grounded Chakras, coming from the Base Chakra that often remains rooted in structure, and order, deep within the Matrix pattern of survival. Avoidance runs deep, and they’re usually heavily grounded in s*x, needing to be saved rather than supportive. They rise much more slowly through the Sacral, Solar Plexus and quite often finally into their Heart, but by that stage the irony is that it’s typically for someone else. Ask yourself do you really want to be someones therapist, for all that spent energy becoming the benefit of another woman, once the DM finally becomes more patient, with less irritation? Eventually choosing someone easier, more suitable, for an easier life than what the Twin Flame connection demands of them. That betrayal is the most painful aspect of the Twin Flame journey, and usually what sets you free, to release the density of this character in perfect timing. The pedestal falls and you can finally see what you have been carrying solo the whole time.
Laura, one of the only Twin Flame coaches I would recommend, has made a great video on this exact situation that I’ll add to comments, where the Divine Feminine often gets fooled when the masculine returns. After all that time waiting, they think he will be exactly what they have hoped for and imagined reunion to look like, but very rarely is that the case. If they have not gone into stages of sovereignty, there is little spiritual growth. If the DM has pulled away, for several years, showing no sign whatsoever that he still remains connected, it’s because he chose to move away from the connection for a reason. The best thing that you can do is face acceptance, pull back your energy, get back on track and don’t let him land on you when he arrives back again, looking for something familiar. He’ll be gone again before you know it, unless you’ve arrived at inner union, and even then you wouldn’t be hoping for something romantic, you’d be at peace with where you’re both at. Removing your focus entirely, and redirecting the heaviness of attachment energy onto what it is that you’re here to do, for your own individual mission work becomes the focus and priority of the later stage Twin Flame Journey. Only then, will things start to shift and change, when you are no longer supplying energy to the connection. Let it fall.