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Hi, I'm Zahra, an ICF-Certified Life & Health Coach, a Nationally Recognised Nutritionist and an NLP Practitioner. For years, I felt trapped in cycles I didn’t know how to escape—toxic relationships, self-doubt, and a lingering sense of never feeling “enough.” My first breakup in my early 20s shattered me. I was drowning in depression and isolation, convinced that if I just tried harder, loved deeper, and ignored the red flags, things would work out. That relationship was codependent, draining, and laced with unhealed trauma—and walking away was just the beginning. I thought escaping meant healing, but I quickly realised that freedom without clarity only leads to more confusion. I built new friendships, forced myself into hobbies, and tried to rebuild from scratch—but I kept falling back into the same destructive patterns. My health suffered. Burnout and stress manifested in gut issues, exhaustion, and anxiety. I was running on empty, chasing external fixes while avoiding the real work within. The turning point came when I finally stopped being at the effect of life and decided to reclaim control. I started setting boundaries, even when they meant facing solitude. I spent time strengthening my self-worth, learning how to break free from limiting beliefs and emotional triggers. For the first time, I opened myself up to love again, but this time, on my terms. With the confidence and clarity I had cultivated, I stepped into a relationship rooted in respect, emotional security, and genuine connection—one that has now flourished for nearly a decade and remains the most fulfilling partnership of my life! I became a student of transformation, investing in nutrition, mindset coaching, and personal development. I deepened my knowledge through life coaching certification, NLP training, and holistic health studies—because healing isn’t just about fixing symptoms. It’s about rebuilding from the inside out. Now, I coach ambitious women through their own transformations—helping them rewrite the beliefs that have kept them stuck, reclaim their full potential, and design a life rooted in self-worth, fulfillment, and wellness. Because I’ve lived through these struggles myself, I know firsthand what it takes to break free and rise stronger. Join my exclusive Facebook community, Unleash Her Wellness, where I share resources, mindset shifts, and transformational strategies to help you step into confidence, fulfillment, and purpose. https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1AUdRSeJ3z/

When it comes to People Pleasing, there's one thing that drives it, that is really hard to unlearn:👉 The Fear of Conflic...
03/11/2026

When it comes to People Pleasing, there's one thing that drives it, that is really hard to unlearn:
👉 The Fear of Conflict.

How often are you Conflict Avoiding?🤔
😳 When you have the opportunity to stand up for yourself, but there's a chance you might trigger someone, to it may result in a Confrontation, what do you do? 👀

👂 The answers to these questions will reveal how much of your life is controlled by the people pleasing part.

Let's share in the comments and start a discussion. We all need support! 🙌

31/10/2026

How long can you keep giving from an empty cup?🫗
🤔Are you constantly putting everyone else first, struggling to say no, feeling guilty about prioritising yourself or finding yourself running on empty?
🙅‍♀️It's time to break the cycle of people-pleasing and start choosing yourself.
I've created a community called People Pleasers in Recovery for those who want to:
🙏Break free from people-pleasing and self-abandonment.
🙏Build healthier relationships and stronger boundaries.
🙏Reclaim their self-worth and confidence.
🙏Improve their gut health, nutrition and overall wellbeing.

Because you can care deeply for others without losing yourself in the process.
Ready to start putting yourself first?
Join our community here👇
https://www.facebook.com/groups/peoplepleaserrecovery/
Let's start filling that cup!

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🫶This is a lesson that has taken me years to learn. As a recovering people pleaser, I always wanted to just help people,...
30/10/2026

🫶This is a lesson that has taken me years to learn. As a recovering people pleaser, I always wanted to just help people, even at the cost of my own peace.
🤔I came across people that kept on defending their victimhood. They would blame their past, they would blame society, they would even blame statistics and studies, so that they justify their victimhood, and how they've been wronged.
😂Listen, the victimhood championships don't give you a prize when you win. It just continues yourt misery.
🤲I spent years trying to change these people's minds, remind them of the innate power they carry, and help them make empowered decisions, but I kept being met with limitations and excuses.
💕And now, I've come to realise, it's a fool's errand to try and help someone, who isn't willing to help themselves.
👉Those that spend more energy defending their victimhood, rather than finding their empowered self, are beyond my help.
🥲How long did it take you to learn this? or are you still in the process of learning it? Perhaps you find yourself stuck in a victimhood mindset yourself. Share in the comments and let's start an honest discussion.

I'm embarrassed to admit that I'm sitting at the doctors office but I still feel lost as ever in regards to my health ou...
28/10/2026

I'm embarrassed to admit that I'm sitting at the doctors office but I still feel lost as ever in regards to my health outcomes.

😕 As you may know, I've struggled from ongoing chronic pain for a few years, and finding the source of that has led to no results.
🤐 Meanwhile I recently had to go the emergency with severe abdominal pain, and that resulted in a surprise: they found a cyst in my o***y.

🤔 On top of that, a scan found some abnormalities in my stomach and esophagus too.
😞 My health anxiety has been on high alert, but as I'm seeking help to manage it, I'm actually doing way better than expected.

🙏 And even though there's a lot of uncertainty ahead, I'm sure that I will show up for every challenge with a resilient and open mind.

🤣 And I might even learn something about myself along the way.

So, even though I'd like to say that I know all the answers, and know what to do, the truth is: I don't... But I trust that I will figure it out as I go.

🌟 In your journey, have you faced uncertainties about your health? How do you manage to keep low stress and adapt to it? Share your strategies and let's support each other!

For the longest time after being diagnosed with pcos, I was in denial.😬🤔 Since I don't fit the common criteria, I always...
25/10/2026

For the longest time after being diagnosed with pcos, I was in denial.
😬
🤔 Since I don't fit the common criteria, I always struggled to understand this diagnosis. It's usually characterised by poor blood sugar regulation, which I didn't have. Also irregular cycles which I didn't have. Even the high androgens were absent from my blood test results.
😳 Still a gynaecologist saw me twice and made the diagnosis only looking at my AMH levels, and hirsuitism.
🤐 Recently I came to find out that I have a cyst on my o***y, and it's caused me to completely question myself again.
😑 And while I'm in this confusing space of labels and diagnoses, I've come to understand the power of discernment.
You see, I also suffer from health anxiety, and this recent discovery has sent me spiralling.
🌟 But I'm using this experience as an opportunity to respond differently than I have in the past. Instead of hyper focusing on all the symptoms, or spending hours researching, I'm finding peace in knowing that my body knows what to do, and it will either sort itself out on its own, or escalate it into a bigger problem, at which point I will seek the medical help that I need.

💯 Knowing this plan has helped me immensely while going through this uncertain health journey. For all my pcos girlies, or anyone else going through a health scare right now, tell me:
👉 What's been helping you the most during this time?

Let's support each other 🫶

23/10/2026

If you have limiting beliefs holding you back, this is your responsibility to work through. Yes, even though they got developed due to how other people treated you.

22/10/2026

Your Limiting Beliefs are just blocks that you can overcome. For me, a limiting belief that has been holding me back is related to receiving. I have limited myself from being able to receive because I felt afraid. This association was developed through childhood conditioning.
As adults we have the power to remove these limiting beliefs, and take our power back. It all starts with awareness.

Let's stop being victims of our past, and start being victors in our life. Let's take responsibility for our circumstances, and change for the better. I believe in us.

In my latest substack post, I share how a limiting belief was formed in my childhood, and how it affects me today. For y...
22/10/2026

In my latest substack post, I share how a limiting belief was formed in my childhood, and how it affects me today. For years I was afraid of receiving. I felt guilty and afraid if someone made a compliment. I used to think that maybe it's just the people pleaser in me that got triggered. But the issue went far deeper.

Recently, I overcame this limiting belief, and I want to share with you how I did it. And I encourage you to share your limiting beliefs in the comments. Let's support each other to reclaim our full power and will again!

22/10/2026

In relationships, we can have conflict. And sometimes we need support. 🤐
But how do we ask for support without "Airing our dirty laundry"?😕

As a relationships coach, this a nuanced scenario, and it requires one thing:
👉 Discernment.

😓 Just because you are going through a tough time, doesn't mean that everyone needs to know all the intimate details of your private life.

💕 You are allowed to be supported through tough feelings, without being forced to share all the details.

😍 Long term healthy relationships are built on trust, communication and intimacy. And a relationship cannot be intimate if everyone in the whole world is privy to your personal life.

🙏What do you think?

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