Rewilding with Ness

19/10/2026

PERMISSION IS FU***NG CANCELLED. 🍒

How much longer are you going to wait?

For the right time.

For the confidence.

For someone to tell you that wanting more doesn’t make you ungrateful.

You’ve spent enough time negotiating with the version of yourself who keeps saying one day.

Maybe you’re fu***ng exhausted from knowing there’s more available to you while watching yourself find another reason not to reach for it.

That’s where RECLAMATION comes in.

Four weeks of getting curious about the beliefs, patterns and stories that have been making your decisions for you.

Not to fix you.

But to explore what happens when you stop letting those stories decide how much life you’re allowed to have.

RECLAMATION- THE INTENSIVE 🍒

An intimate four week online experience.

A live opening circle.
Private 1:1 belief work with me.
A guided group breathwork experience.
A closing circle for integration and reclamation.

Plus your journal and our private community throughout.

8 November – 6 December 2026
Six founding places.
$666 AUD.

And here’s the thing.

I can’t make the decision for you.

But I can hold the space for you to start making different ones.

The door is open. Are you fu***ng coming?

Enrol through the link in my bio.

Ness xx

18/10/2026

PERMISSION CANCELLED!

Venus Rx has clearly entered the group chat! 😈🖤🔥

Take what resonates and leave the rest ✌🏼

15/10/2026

Take what resonates leave the rest 😉😏✌🏼

Some little Venus retrograde in Scorpio inspo for you! ✌🏼✨✨

Which one’s your fave? 🤫😈

14/10/2026

13/10/2026

After a life time of trying to close my abilities down, shut them off completely or even soften the way they sound I’m absolutely fine knowing this is who I am!

I’m Ness.

I’m deeply psychic (my clients already know this because our sessions are off the charrrrrts) ✨😌✌🏼

But I’ve never admitted that I’m psychic. Until last night 🥰 and for my husband to respond with “I believe you” was so healing for me.

I’ve experienced things in this life I can’t even explain. And I’ve sounded crazy trying! But I no longer care!

Because this is who I am! 🤩✌🏼✌🏼

09/10/2026

10/10/24
My new beginning ✨

2 years, 730 days.

I sit writing this with tears in my eyes.

The gratitude
The love
The compassion
The strength
The resilience

I know the hurt and pain the first version of me held. The way I spoke about myself, constantly tearing her down.

I look back today with nothing but love for EVERYTHING she went through. My heart aches I couldn’t give her the love in the moment when she needed it. But I have it in overflow for her now.

Whilst holding so much pride for the journey and transformation over the last 2 years. Showing up when I didn’t think I had it in me, challenging myself, allowing myself rest, holding myself in the moments no one else could.

Weightloss surgery wasn’t the easy way out. Countless times I was judged. But did this for me anyway and I wouldn’t change a fu***ng thing!

Despite having the surgery I still show up ALWAYS for myself. Movement, training, nourishing myself body, mind and soul!

Grateful for the ones who pushed me on the days I struggled. The ones who support me and encourage me every day to be my best because that’s enough 🫶🏼🫶🏼

Emma Brown World Gym Midland

07/10/2026

Thursday tea ☕️ 🥵

Desire.

Even the word can feel loaded.

S*x. Ego. Greed. Wanting too much. Being a woman who’s never satisfied.

But maybe it’s not something to tame. Maybe it’s trying to show you where your life can get bigger!

Where you want more pleasure.
More money.
More freedom.
More expression.
More fu***ng life.

Maybe desire isn’t the problem.

Maybe pretending you don’t want what you want is...

05/10/2026

‼️⚠️ Trigger warning-domestic violence.

Yesterday I witnessed something I wish I hadn’t.

I’m not going to share the details because it isn’t my story to tell, and I refuse to turn another woman’s experience into content.

The safest thing I could do in that moment was call 000.

What happened after that is the part that’s been sitting with me.

Cars everywhere. A main road. People driving past.

And when police called me back later, I asked whether anyone else had reported it.

I was told I was the only one.

And I just kept thinking…

how the f**k am I the only one?

Are we so desensitised to seeing people hurt that we just keep driving?

Are we so consumed by our own lives that we don’t notice?

Or do we notice and convince ourselves somebody else will deal with it?

And that’s where the bigger conversation hit me.

We are very loud online.

We repost the graphics.
We use the hashtags.
We scream from the rooftops about what we stand for.

But who are you in the face of adversity when nobody is watching?

Because advocacy isn’t integrity if it only exists when there’s an audience.

If your values disappear the second they become uncomfortable, inconvenient or require action, that isn’t congruence.

That’s performance.

And performative advocacy is gross.

If you’re going to scream from the rooftops online, you better be willing to live those same values offline too.

No likes.
No views.
No applause.

Just integrity.

04/10/2026

She heard me and I hope she never forgets 🥹🌻🖤

04/10/2026

Apparently Lilith has entered the group chat 🔥😈✌🏼

https://candidwithness.substack.com/p/i-shrunk-myself-to-be-more-digestible?r=8pzbt8&utm_medium=ios