30/08/2026
When Your Hypnotherapy Client Wants the Symptom Fixed – But Avoids What’s Underneath
There's no doubt you will at some stage of your career experienced a client who genuinely wants hypnosis to help—but seems to pull away whenever therapy gets close to something important?
They might:
• Joke when the conversation becomes uncomfortable
• Change the subject or minimise the problem
• Say “I don’t know” when emotions are explored
• Want you to “just hypnotise me and fix it”
• Engage well during the session but make little change afterwards
• Cancel or disengage as the work becomes more challenging
It can be tempting to interpret these behaviours as resistance or lack of motivation.
But what if the client isn’t resisting change? What if they’re protecting themselves from what change requires them to experience?
Avoidant coping can develop when withdrawal, distraction, humour, minimisation or emotional disengagement provides relief from shame, anxiety, vulnerability or overwhelm.
For hypnotherapists, recognising this pattern is particularly important. A client may hope that hypnosis will remove an unwanted behaviour or feeling without having to engage with the experiences maintaining it. If we move too quickly into trance, suggestion or symptom-focused work, we can sometimes unintentionally work around the avoidance rather than helping the client move beyond it.
In this practical CPD workshop, we’ll explore:
• How avoidant coping develops and why it persists
• How to recognise subtle withdrawal and disengagement in hypnotherapy
• Humour, distraction, minimisation and superficial compliance
• When a request for hypnosis may itself contain an avoidant element
• Building sufficient psychological safety before deeper therapeutic work
• Working with ambivalence without increasing pressure or shame
• Recognising and repairing therapeutic alliance ruptures
• Using hypnosis collaboratively while protecting client autonomy
• Practical strategies for supporting sustained engagement and behavioural change
A key shift throughout the workshop is moving from:
“Why isn’t this client engaging?”
to:
“What might this client be protecting themselves from?”
Understanding that difference can help you respond more effectively when hypnosis alone doesn’t seem to be enough.
As we're already connected, reach out and let me know if you want a complimentary place on the next course:
Live 3-Hour CPD Workshop
đź“… Tuesday 15 September 2026
⏰ 12:30pm–3:30pm AEST
đź’» Online via Zoom
For more details check it out https://lnkd.in/gRM9cXjz
Warm regards,
Karen Bartle
Academy of Advanced Changework
HealthTalk Psychology: The Psychology of Patient/client Change