28/10/2026
Somewhere, somehow, we have confused being patient with being emotionless – no anger, no irritation, no frustration, no resentment … nothing.
But patience isn't the absence of difficult feelings. People who display patience feel the irritation, feel the spike of anger, and feel the urge to snap. They also pause to choose what comes next.
That combination of FEELING, PAUSING and CHOOSING is patience in action.
Thankfully, we don’t need a calm mind or body to be patient. We just need to slow down to notice the storm brewing inside us, take a breath, and pick a response that aligns with who we want to be ✨
📸 Patience isn’t about feeling numb when faced with a reality we didn’t choose