23/12/2025
December 2025 Newsletter-Emotional Connections and Health
Happy Holidays!
Merry Christmas!
The Clinic Reopens
Thursday,
January 8th, 2026
My embarrassment and the Holidays/
Christmas Connection
For many years my patients report to me that I am like a counselor. For years I was so embarrassed about this. I tried to discount the importance of feeling emotionally healthy. I wanted to be the “smart” Naturopath who helped people through “science”. I believed it was an exaggeration to say that emotional problems are the origin of physical health conditions.
By now I have tested this theory many times. I am acutely aware of how emotional health is the foundation for proper physical health
I have tried the “only science” route and watched my patients “heal” everything physically to the point that their physicians and specialists are saying there is no longer anything wrong... but they still feel and act as sick as when they were critically ill and they don’t improve.
I have also watched patients unwind certain beliefs and overcome outlandish diagnoses they were not supposed to get over. They feel great even when their symptoms say otherwise...and if they stay emotionally healthy, I watch the symptoms and health conditions gradually and almost effortlessly disappear.
What is the difference? How people feel about themselves and the emotional connections with or without others around them.
Here are some tips for different types of us this Holiday/Christmas Season:
Are you someone who consistently pours into other people at your own expense?
Consider whether you are enabling the people you are being “generous” to.
Consider whether your “generous” identity allows you to ignore your own uncomfortable thoughts.
Consider whether ignoring your health allows you a future to be the sick one who needs the help. This can be a very insidious and sticky unconscious plan that lurks beneath.
Are you someone who consistently worries about your own health or your own circumstances?
Consider whether you are blaming others for your own circumstances.
Consider whether you need other people or outside circumstances to change before you can change your own circumstances.
Consider being more generous to and curious about others in need (they may live in your household). You may get to see that you are not so alone in your struggles and that there are solutions you didn't know of.
Have you been trying to be the opposite of someone?
If you have been working your whole life to make sure you are not like someone else, you can now relax on that endeavor. You will likely never become someone who you have built yourself to be opposite of...unless you keep pushing this endeavor into the very place you were trying to avoid.
Do you feel lonely and alone during the holidays?
It can be so healing to really take stock of why you have separated yourself from others and make sure to only reach out to people who help you to stay centered. If you feel that you were in the wrong to separate yourself in the past, then do your best to make amends from your end and don’t worry about the outcome, just do your very best and know it’s enough.
Do you feel overwhelmed by people and responsibilities during the holidays?
It can be so healing to isolate yourself and focus on just yourself for just a moment.
May you find peace within yourselves that you can enjoy and/ or share with others.
Happy Holidays! Merry Christmas!
Happy New Year Everyone!
Sincerely
Dr Gudrun
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