28/10/2026
When does “that’s just how they are” become a leadership problem?
A colleague interrupts others in handover. Someone routinely dismisses a junior team member’s concerns.
The response is familiar: “That’s just how they are.”
Personality differences are normal, but the effect of behaviour on residents, colleagues and the willingness to speak up cannot simply be explained away.
A constructive manager describes the behaviour, explains its impact, listens to the person involved and agrees what needs to change. They then check whether it has. That approach is fairer than letting frustration build or making a judgement about someone’s character.
Good culture is built through small, consistent leadership decisions. Is there a behaviour your team has quietly learned to work around that deserves a proper conversation?