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Mental Health & Exercise Coach Hi, for those of you who don’t know me personally yet; I’m Steve Fox aged 57½, husband and smitten grandfather of two.

I have spent 35 years in the financial services industry, but I have decided it is time for a change. So, I am also now a Personal Trainer and Trainee Mental Health & Exercise Coach from Chippenham. I have a belief system:

“We have a responsibility to ourselves first, and then to our family and friends, to make sure we are around as long as possible to enjoy and support them.”

I am a passionate believer that exercise should be promoted as fun first, and then for health and wellbeing – NOT for aesthetic or appearance reasons. Viewing it this way can make you feel happier, healthier, and more confident than ever before. I had a serious (aren’t they all!) heart attack in 2017. Whilst exercise played its part in my physical recovery, it was undoubtedly key in my mental one. What I nearly lost fashioned my belief system. This is the principal reason why I am adding Mental Health & Exercise Coach to my fitness qualifications. If you want to use exercise solely as a tool to “look good”, then I am not the fitness partner for you. I want to help you use exercise to FEEL good. We’ll find a form that you’ll love and stick to, and view as an essential opportunity for fun, not a chore. Age and perceived levels of current fitness should not be identified as a barrier because they are not. The World Health Organisation defines health as a state of complete physical, mental and social well-being and not merely the absence of disease or infirmity. That is why I believe that exercise should address key markers of health such as physical, emotional, intellectual, and social. My prime drivers are to be around for as long as possible to see the people who my grandchildren will blossom in to, and squeeze in as much fun as possible on the way. Looking after myself, whilst not providing any guarantees, without doubt weighs the odds in my favour. Around 1 in 3 men and 1 in 2 women are not active enough for good health*. That can only be due to perceived barriers that I’d love to help you tear down. As I know (courtesy of my granddaughter) Elsa sings in Frozen 2:

Every day's a little harder
As I feel my power grow
Don't you know there's part of me
That longs to go
Into the unknown

Don’t be scared of the unknown, lets embrace it together and have a load of fun on the way.

* Office for Health Improvement and Disparities, 10 March 2022.

11/10/2026

Some people say we have a finite number of heartbeats ❤️⏳

Maybe that’s why I spent a good chunk of my twenties avoiding anything that made my heart beat faster…

🏃‍♂️ running
💔 commitment
💸 looking at my bank account 😅

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Whilst that theory might be a bit questionable 🤔, what I do know is:

👉 The healthier and more capable we are, the more options life will present us 💪✨

🫀 Cardio capacity
🏋️ Strength
⚖️ Balance
🧘 Flexibility

These aren’t just fitness buzzwords — they are the foundations of longevity 🌱

Not just surviving… but thriving 🔥

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There is …

🚫 No magic bullet
🚫 No guaranteed path to perfect health, happiness, or teenage knees

As someone who had a heart attack at the age of 52 ❤️‍🩹, I know that better than most.

But if we can stack the odds in our favour… why wouldn’t we? 🎯

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🪑 Being sedentary is damaging, but so is chasing extremes 🥵, burning out 🔥💤, or obsessing over how we look 👀

⚖️ The sweet spot sits somewhere in the middle.

✔️ Move often 🚶‍♂️
✔️ Maintain muscle and strength 💪
✔️ Challenge our lungs 🌬️
✔️ Stay supple for balance and mobility 🤸‍♂️
✔️ Adapt as life changes 🔄

Our real goal should be …
👉 Finding a way of moving — and living — that we actually enjoy 😊
👉 Something sustainable 🔁
👉 Something meaningful 💭

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For me, exercise isn’t about chasing unrealistic ideals ❌

It is about:

🛒 Carrying my own shopping at 80
⛰️ Walking up hills with my grandchildren
🏥 Staying out of hospital
🧻 Wiping my own bum in my 90s

I put my health first so I can be with and support the people I love ❤️

And grab every opportunity for fun thrown my way 🎉

Life isn’t about perfection.

It’s about longevity, freedom, and living fully 🔓✨

27/09/2026

Not a day seems to go by where we hear about a cost of living crisis 💷📉

The real crisis isn’t the cost of living…

it’s the cost of not living. ⏳🖤
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🇬🇧 Right now in the UK…

A lot of us are struggling more than we admit…

👉 I’m not saying this to scare you, but to remind you — there is still time. ⏰✨
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Exercise isn’t about scales, mirrors, or shrinking ourselves.

It’s about building a life that actually feels good to live.

It is about:

✨ Space for us to work towards meaningful goals
🧠 Our mental health over aesthetics
🔥 Confidence over our clothes size
🤍 Self-respect over scales
🚫 A refusal to judge self-worth by appearance
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On my left side I have a tattoo of a skeleton at prayer ☠️🙏

Inspired by William Cheselden’s 1733 anatomical work and the idea of Memento Mori — Latin for:

“Remember you have to die.” ⏳

I don’t see it as morbid. 🖤

I see it as grounding. 🌍

It reminds me that when I die, I will…

❤️ have looked after the people I care about to the best of my ability and for as long as possible
🎯 have given myself the best chance of achieving the things that matter to me
✨ have offered myself up with no regrets
😄 have done all these things whilst having as much fun as possible, at every opportunity
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Exercise will have been the foundation of all of that. 🏗️

Because regular movement is one of the most powerful tools we have for helping us live longer — and, more importantly, live better. 💊⏳
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We won’t care what we weighed at the end of our lives. ⚖️❌

But we will care about:

🚶‍♂️ Our independence
⚡ Our energy
🧒👧 Keeping up with kids, grandkids, nieces and nephews
🌈🔒 Whether our lives feel expansive or restricted
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✨ We can intervene now
✨ We can make our change now
✨ We can lay the foundations of living the rest of our lives how we want to, now 🧱🌱

20/09/2026

I’m 60 years young and 10 months, 19 days wiser 🎂

　• 👴 A grandfather
　• 🧠💪 A mental health & exercise coach
　• 🚀 Founder of

I’m not a personal trainer.

A trainer teaches something new.

A coach reminds us what we’re already capable of. 🔁✨

We don’t need to be fit to begin.

We just need to start.
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📍 2017 changed everything for me.

❤️‍🩹 The year I had a heart attack.

👶 And the year my granddaughter was born.

That’s when I realised:

　• ⏳ It’s not about lifespan.
　• ❤️ It’s about healthspan.

Not just how long we live…

But how well we live. 🙌
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😬 The fitness world can often make us feel judged.

Before we’ve even started.

❌ I’m not interested in that.

Exercise should feel like:

　• 😄 Fun
　• 🕊️ Freedom
　• 💥 Confidence
　• 🙏 Feeling good in our own skin

Not punishment. 🚫

Not pressure. 🚫

Not perfection. 🚫
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🏃‍♂️ We’re built to move.

Somewhere along the way, we forgot how. 🤔

We started to believe exercise had to be hard work.

Or that we simply couldn’t do it.
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🥊 Life knocks us about.

🧠💥 Stress leaves bruises that we can’t see.

But most of us just want to:

　• 😄 Laugh more
　• 🏃‍♂️ Move more
　• ❤️ Feel like ourselves again
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❤️‍🩹 After my heart attack…

The physical recovery was luckily straightforward.

The mental side wasn’t. 🧠

And that taught me that:

Sometimes it’s not about moving forward… ➡️

It’s about refusing to step backwards. ⛔⬅️

And having the courage to ask for help. 🤝
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🧠 We all have mental health.

💪 We all have physical health.

So we all owe it to ourselves to look after both. 🙏

And enjoy doing it. 😄
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❤️ Because it’s never too late to start looking after the
person you’re still going to be.

06/09/2026

💭 It can be easy to see exercise as something that TAKES energy from us.

Something that makes us tired.

Something we have to find the get-up-and-go to do.

But what if we looked at exercise as a tool that can actually CREATE energy? ⚡

Not just physical energy, but mental and emotional energy too. 🧠❤️
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💪 YES, exercise places stress on the body.

😴 Yes, it can make us tired.

🦵 Yes, our muscles can be sore the next day.

🥱 And yes, if we overdo it, exercise can absolutely leave us exhausted.

But that isn't the whole story.
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🌱 EXERCISE CAN ALSO:

🧠 Help us think more clearly
😊 Improve our mood
😌 Help regulate stress and anxiety
⚡ Increase our sense of energy and vitality
🎯 Improve concentration and productivity
❤️ Help us feel more like ourselves
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🤔 And how do we actually FEEL AFTER we've exercised?

Compare our energy, concentration and productivity on a day when we haven't moved much with a day when we've been active.

The difference can surprise us when we experience it for ourselves.

🔄 This is why I think our relationship with exercise needs to change.

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In modern life, we're conditioned to giving so much of ourselves to work, family and other responsibilities…..in that order.

But surely it should be:

❤️ LIFE/work balance

Not:

💼 WORK/life balance

LIFE COMES FIRST.

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❤️ We can't give our best to the people we love if we're constantly running on empty.

Looking after our MIND 🧠 and BODY 💪 isn't selfish.

It's one of the most selfless things we can do.

It gives us the best chance of being around for longer — and being able to enjoy that time with the people who matter most.

The people who make life… well… LIFE.
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😂 And let's not forget FUN.

We mustn't lose track of who we are.

🧸 We need to play.
😂 We need to laugh.
🏃‍♂️ We need to move.
❤️ We need to do things simply because they make us feel alive.

Because when we're laughing is one of the few times that we are truly ourselves.
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In April 2017 I had a heart attack.

🚑 I had to be resuscitated twice and was taken to hospital by air ambulance — something I have no recollection of.

My physical recovery largely took care of itself.

My mental recovery took much longer.

But seven months later, I stood on the start line of an obstacle course race.

🏃‍♂️ Surrounded by family and friends.
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💡 Something had changed.

Exercise wasn't about getting fitter and stronger.

It wasn't about society was telling me I should be doing.

It was about LIVING ❤️
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🌱 That's why I do what I do now.

Every action we take is preceded by a reason why.

And amongst all the messages telling us WHY we should exercise, perhaps the most important reasons are also the simplest:

⏳ To live longer.
❤️ To live better.
🌍 And to have more opportunities to enjoy the time we have.

That's a pretty good return on investing in our wellbeing — because it may just be the most important investment we can ever make.

30/08/2026

There are two turns of phrase in modern life that really wind me up. 😤

“Work/life balance.”

Nope! ❌ It’s LIFE/work balance.

Life comes first. ❤️ Work is just you leasing your time to someone in exchange for a fee.

That’s it. 🤷‍♂️

And then there’s:

“Are you living your best life?”

No, I’m not! 😂

I’m living my ONLY LIFE. ❤️

We only get one shot 🎯, so we should squeeze every last drop out of it before we’re gone.

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If you’re as old (or young!) as me, you might remember clothes being part-dried using a mangle — squeezing and wringing as much water out of them as possible. 👕💧

That’s how we should treat life. 🌱

Squeeze it. Wring it. 💪

Get every last bit of fun, love, connection, adventure and experience out of it. ❤️😂🌍🎉

And eventually, when the time comes, slide peacefully into our grave saying…

“All done.” 😌

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My heart attack made one thing very clear to me. ❤️‍🩹

Time being alive is limited. It is not guaranteed. ⏳

But that doesn’t mean we simply sit back and accept whatever happens.

We can stack the odds in our favour. 🎲➡️💪

And that’s where healthspan comes in. 🧠❤️🏃‍♂️

I’m not interested in simply adding years to my life.
I want to add life to my years. ❤️

I want to be able to move, play (with my grandchildren), explore, laugh, love, connect, be independent and enjoy myself for as long as possible. 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦🏃‍♂️🌍😂❤️

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Which is why I have a few principles that sit at the heart of everything I do: ❤️👇

🏃‍♂️ Exercise must be fun – I will never be too old to go out and play. 🎉

❤️ I have a responsibility to myself, my family and my friends to be around for as long as possible. 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦

⏳ My time being alive is limited, so I don't want to waste it.

👴 I won’t stop moving because I get old. I’ll get old if I stop moving. 💪

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And there’s something else I believe very strongly.

Mental health and physical health are not separate things. 🧠❤️

We all have both. 🙋‍♂️🙋‍♀️ So why shouldn’t we freely talk about them? 🗣️💬

Exercise can influence our mood, stress, sleep, confidence, self-worth, resilience, independence, connection, happiness and sense of identity. 🌱🧠❤️😴💪

But simply telling someone “go and exercise, you’ll feel better” isn’t enough. 🤷‍♂️

We need to understand why movement matters to us as individuals — and find ways of exercising that fit our lives, our values and our motivations. 🎯

Otherwise, we’re just metaphorically — and sometimes literally — running around in circles. 🔄🏃‍♂️😂

23/08/2026

Coaches often talk about exercise as though the biggest barrier is simply getting people through the door.

But getting someone through the door is only the beginning.

What happens next matters more. 🤍
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👥 People make the difference.

It’s my job to create an environment where people feel understood, safe, accepted — and that they belong.

Because the right environment might get someone to turn up once…

…but the right person can help them keep coming back. 👏
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So perhaps the question shouldn't always be:

❌ “Why aren't people exercising?”

Maybe we should be asking:

👉 “What barriers have we created?”
And then:

👉 “What can we do to remove them?”

For me, this is where mental health and exercise coaching comes together. 🧠💪
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💪 Exercise isn't just about exercise

It isn't just about muscles, calories, weight or performance.

It can help us build:

💪 Confidence
🤝 Connection
🌱 Resilience
❤️ Wellbeing

And there’s growing evidence that regular exercise can also support the brain's ability to adapt and change — something known as neuroplasticity. 🧠

But we don't need to make this complicated.
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💭 Sometimes mindset starts with asking ourselves some pretty simple questions:

🔹 What is important to us? - a life without purpose can easily become a life filled with distraction.

🔹 What are we avoiding? - the thing we're looking for is often hiding inside the thing we're shunning.

🔹 What little things are we taking for granted? - one day, we might look back and realise they were actually the big things.

🔹 What does the person we want to become need us to do today? - maybe we should live our lives as though one day they’ll become our biopic — and we're the star of our own movie. 🎬

And perhaps we should stop making “mindset” sound like something that requires a qualification, a workbook and 47 inspirational quotes. 😂
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Sometimes it starts with something much simpler.

🎯 Finding a way forward that feels safe, achievable and meaningful.

Because sometimes the biggest barrier isn't a lack of motivation.
Its finding a way in.

That's where good coaching can make the difference.

❌ Not telling people what they should do.

✅ Helping them discover what they can do — and giving them the confidence to keep going. 💪🧠❤️

22/08/2026

That's me that is.....

16/08/2026

🎂 I turn 61 this year — and some days I genuinely wonder how I got here.

Along the way I’ve lost people I love, some far too soon (a phrase I’ve never been comfortable with).

I’ve also gained a loving family and friendships I’ll treasure for life 🤍

I’ve made some good decisions.

I’ve done some brave things.

And yes — I’ve also been an idiot on more than one occasion — ask my wife! 😄

So here I am… and the question becomes:
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❓ What now?

📊 If I use 80 as a rough marker, I've still got roughly a quarter of my life ahead of me.
And my intention is simple — to make that chapter meaningful, spectacular and amazing.

I often say we want to stay around as long as possible to enjoy and support the people we love — our partners, children, grandchildren, parents, wider family and friends ❤️

But we can’t forget ourselves in the process.
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⏳ Longevity isn’t just about adding years.

It’s about having the capacity to say yes — to moments, opportunities, laughter, play, and connection, whether they involve our families and friends or not.

We are never too old to simply play and have fun 🎈

That’s why prioritising our own wellbeing is selfless, not selfish.
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❤️ As a heart attack survivor,

and as someone who has lost three parents to different forms of cancer, I know there are no guarantees.

But if we have the opportunity and ability to weigh the odds in our favour, why wouldn’t we?
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💬 Reframe

If the word exercise feels intimidating, let’s swap it for movement.

Because movement helps us — not in one way, but in many:

🌱 Support a longer, healthier life
❤️ Boost cardiovascular health
💪 Maintain muscle mass and bone density
🧠 Enhance brain function and mental health
⚙️ Support metabolic health
🛡️ Support immune function
🦵 Enhance mobility and flexibility
📉 Reduce risk of age-related diseases

All by supporting how our bodies and minds work together, day to day.
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🌟 Growing older isn’t about fading away.

It’s about living with purpose, curiosity and joy.

It’s about continuing to grow, sharing wisdom, and giving ourselves permission to laugh, love and smile for as long as we’re here.

10/08/2026

I believe that often, our only barriers are the breadth of our senses of fun, daring and adventure.

Return on investment in participation in The Longevity Games is so much more than a well earned t-shirt and goody bag - its what we have found in ourselves as we finish our journeys at the finish line..

People often mistake me for an adult because of my age. Days like those I have spent at the Games make me glad to be alive, determined to stay that way for as long as I can, squeezing the most out of every one of my voyages on the way.

And remember - finish lines, not finish times, always.

09/08/2026

🤍 If exercise feels intimidating, exhausting, or "not for people like me"...
This is for you.
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💭 BARRIERS TO EXERCISE — TRUE OR FALSE?
Let's gently challenge a few common myths...
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💪 "Exercise is just about getting stronger and faster." — FALSE 🟢
Exercise doesn’t have to be a punishment.
It should help us move with confidence, build skills that make everyday life easier, and remind us what our bodies are capable of.
It doesn't have to be about competing.
It's about feeling better than we did yesterday.
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🎂 "I'm too old to invest in my health." — FALSE 🟢
We don't stop moving because we get old.
We get old because we stop moving.
Movement has no age limit.
Somewhere along the way, many of us forgot that moving can be fun.
Maybe it's time we remembered that exercise doesn't have to feel like punishment.
It can simply feel like play. 🛝
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😌 "Stress is something I just have to live with." — FALSE 🟢
Stress has a way of creeping into our lives until our minds and bodies start feeling the weight of it.
We can't always avoid stress.
But we can give ourselves healthy ways to release it.
Movement is one of the healthiest ways we can relieve stress.
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❤️ "Health is just physical fitness." — FALSE 🟢
Health isn't simply the absence of illness.
True wellbeing comes from looking after our physical, mental, and social health — because each one supports the others.
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🧠 "I'm not qualified to talk about mental health." — FALSE 🟢
We all have physical health.
We all have mental health.
Talking about both should be as normal as talking about the weather. ☀️
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🏋️ "The thought of going to a gym scares me." — TRUE 🔴
For many people, gyms can feel intimidating.
Too often they're associated with unrealistic body ideals.
I believe our bodies deserve appreciation for what they can do — not criticism for how they look.
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😬 "Starting something new is scary." — TRUE 🔴
Absolutely.
Trying anything unfamiliar takes courage.
That's where I come in.
My role isn't to push.
It's to help us rediscover the confidence, curiosity and freedom we had as children, when movement was simply fun. 🛝
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👟 "I need a personal trainer to get fit." — FALSE 🟢
Personal trainers and coaches both help people in different ways.
My approach is coaching.
I believe we already have far more potential than we realise.
Sometimes all you need is someone to help you uncover it.
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Because life comes first.
Movement simply helps us enjoy more of it. 🤍

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