13/10/2026
My feed lately seems to be filled with reels of facialists and massage therapists doing aggressive, fast, forceful and performative movements. All for the gram.
You cannot force the body to change. Your fascia and tissues will not change with forceful touch. This can actually create more resistance and tension in the tissues.
Female bodies are designed perfectly. But throughout life and the society we experience today, we get told we should be like this, look like that, stay silent, don't express, look perfect and perform for the camera.
" Force the body to release with fast movements that look fancy to get in as much as possible to look good for the gram and gain all the likes" 🥴
This is not tailored to the divine architecture of the female body & nervous system.
She needs:
Slow, soft and compassionate touch
Rituals that remind her of her inner safety and sensuality
Touch that follows the bodies signals
Steady and gradual pressure accompanied with soft strokes and deep breathing
No expectations or pressures to people please or perform
Acceptance for all states that the feminine can arrive and leave in
Freedom to release and express the truth that has been suppressed
And all the juciness of her full aliveness.
You wont find any performative, forceful or fast approaches to any of my bodywork or treatment experiences. I respect the feminine, mind, body and spirit 💛
