23/10/2026
“Relax your shoulders” is easy advice to give. Whether they stay relaxed is another matter.
You can notice tension, soften a little, then find yourself holding exactly the same way ten minutes later. That familiar effort may be part of how you get through the day, especially when there is a lot being asked of you.
Fascia belongs in this conversation because it is living, sensitive tissue, supplied with nerves and involved in how we sense position and movement. Working with it means paying attention to the person who is feeling our touch, including their pace, their breathing and whether the work feels welcome.
This changes how we approach the pelvis and core. Asking someone to soften their abdomen can sound simple, yet for them it might feel unfamiliar or exposing. We need enough curiosity to understand that, and enough patience to let their response guide what happens next.
At Centering, our next MER training, we’ll explore this relationship between touch, structural support and the experience of inhabiting your body. There is detailed work to learn around the pelvis and core, alongside the quieter skill of recognizing when to do less.
9–15 November 2026 · UK
With Ketu Bø & Ulla Thordal
Training details through the link in our bio.