07/10/2026
I honestly believe that what we speak into the universe matters.
Somewhere along the way, I’ve found myself approaching life very differently.
I’ve discovered that being kinder to myself has given me permission to pause and recognise the things that no longer deserve my attention or energy.
Lately, I’ve noticed how often I use the phrase, “I don’t have the capacity.”
Just yesterday, while having a conversation with a neighbour, he mentioned that my tone has become a lot softer.
I agreed with him and explained that it’s part of my new approach to life.
The truth is, since embracing the phrase “I don’t have the capacity”I’ve started to move through life differently.
I’m learning that choosing myself doesn’t mean I care any less about others. It simply means I’m becoming more mindful of what I give, where I give it, and whether I have the capacity to give it at all.
My point is this: be mindful of what you are pouring into yourself.
The words we repeatedly speak to ourselves can become the way we see ourselves, and eventually, the way we experience our lives.