09/10/2026
Each week, we bring more than a tight neck, an aching hip, insomnia or anxiety into our physical practice.
We bring our whole lives.
Very often, it is our emotional life that is shaping, and sometimes leading, our physical symptoms. For those in caring roles, this can be a defining part of what we bring to practice — and what we are trying to relieve.
There are people in our lives we cannot simply walk away from: an ageing parent, an adult child, a partner, a sibling, or someone who is ill, struggling, lonely or difficult.
Because we care, we help. We make appointments, take calls, remember what needs remembering and step in when something goes wrong. Over time, helping can become a role. We become the person who sorts things out, the person who cannot quite say no because we know what might happen if we do.
Yet we can love someone and still feel angry, exhausted or desperate for space. We can understand their suffering without being able to change their life. Care and control are different things.
Sometimes being needed gives us purpose, and stepping back can bring grief. We may have to ask: What has happened to me in this relationship? What do I need now? Have I become responsible for things that belong to another adult? Am I helping freely, or because I am afraid of what will happen if I do not?
We can understand someone’s behaviour without accepting what hurts us. We can set boundaries without withdrawing love. We can acknowledge another person’s suffering without making it our life’s work to prevent it.
We do not have to stop loving someone. But we may need to let go of the idea that everything is down to us.
These feelings — resentment, exhaustion, guilt, sadness and the wish for freedom — are not signs that we do not care. They are part of the complicated reality of caring. Our lives matter too, and we are allowed to struggle.
This is why we lead with the breath in our practice. Our physical symptoms are often manifestations of our emotional landscape. By opening and deepening the breath, we begin to create space for release, strengthening, opening and balance.
Breath In Motion - Starts Thursday October 29th
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