25/09/2026
We received the most beautiful letter this week, written by the mum of one of our recipients to send on to her son’s donor family. Please take the time to read her words. This is what is truly about 💗
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We are sorry it has taken us so long to write.
Mark was 16 years old when he was first diagnosed with kidney disease and our world was turned upside down.
For over 20 years he battled bravely and always with a smile on his face and a cheeky laugh. The stress on our family was awful, it was like being on a never ending roller coaster wondering if he would ever get off.
The inevitable day finally came when we were told he would need a transplant and would have to go on dialysis.
We went through family testing for organ donation but it wasn’t to be. We knew that in order for his suffering to end, somebody else would have to feel a loss unimaginable and we did struggle with that.
He had dialysis 4 times a day for nearly 2 years, he couldn’t see his friends much, holidays were cancelled, all our lives were now ruled by his dialysis regime, medication deliveries, trips to the hospital for tests and treatment for complications. His home no longer looked like a home, it looked like a hospital.
Mark is a wonderful young man. He loves buses, train sets, cars, watching Morse re-runs, action movies and his PlayStation. He makes everyone laugh and is the glue that holds our family together.
When the call came, we cried, not for joy, but because your family had made the ultimate sacrifice. Your family had traded places with our family. It felt wrong for us to be happy in that moment.
After Mark had his transplant, myself and his sister wanted to honour the person who had saved Mark’s life. We bought angel tealights so your loved one is always in our homes and we have a constant reminder that a generous stranger gave us the most incredible gift which we will never forget and we have the utmost respect, the deepest of sympathy and gratitude.
Mark had a difficult 9 months at the start with infections and medication issues, but he is now stable. He is able to walk, see his friends and we have just had our first holiday in a long time which he loved and he is back to enjoying life.
All of this would not have been possible without your family!
Mark has named his kidney Ross. He eats apples and fish which he never used to eat and he says it is because Ross likes them.
We don’t know your loved one’s name but Mark thought it only right to name his kidney as a reminder that another person lives on in him and of their gift to him.
Forever grateful!
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Leeds Teaching Hospitals NHS Trust
NHS Organ Donation