01/09/2026
When I work with pregnant mums, or even talking to friends, I hear some version of the same question over and over. How do I know I’m really communicating with my baby? How do I know I’m not just making it up?
But the deeper question underneath that one is always the same. Can I trust myself, can I trust what I’m sensing.
Culturally, we’ve been conditioned to mistrust our own listening from a very young age. Most of us were taught early on that authority lives outside of us, to the point where we disconnected from our own bodies, from what we’re sensing within.
Pregnancy is such a beautiful time to rebuild that connection to ourselves, because we are literally growing new life within us. It asks us to cultivate safety and trust from somewhere new, and there’s often a fear that opens up alongside that, one we can’t fully explain. Anyone who’s been pregnant knows this feeling. We’re getting in touch with a deeper field, we’re more open, our bodies are expanding, taking up space, creating space, and with that space comes access. It’s one of the most creative times in a woman’s life, a time we can get in touch with God, with life, with the universe, and with the soul of the baby coming through us.
Every baby that comes to us carries a lesson for us. And every baby wants to communicate with their parents, with their mother. They often already know what they need, what they’re bringing in, their own unique character, how they want to be born, how they want to be in communication with us. I’ve experienced this myself, I’ve watched friends experience it, clients experience it. Every single time a woman has stepped into real contact with her baby, it has been incredible.
These new souls coming into the world now carry such a clear capacity to communicate. They want to be felt, they want to be heard, and when we meet them there, it’s a gift, for the mother, for the parents, for the baby, because it means we get to walk alongside them consciously, and meet them exactly as they are, from the very beginning.