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Debra Kilby Healing

Supporting women to birth self, babies and life. Healer, Channel, Spirit Baby Medium, and author. Women's healer, channel and spirit baby communicator.

Helping women heal their mother wounds - whether that be as a women struggling to conceive, a women who has experienced baby loss or birth trauma or those wishing to understand and find peace with their relationship with their mother or as a parent.

15/10/2026

So many questions used to spin round and round my head after my three miscarriages and especially when I was faced with the choice of releasing my baby Rosa due to medical complications.

Questions including - are they ok? Did they feel any pain? Where are they now? Why did this happen?

At the time I totally blamed myself- what did I do wrong? Why am I being punished?

I never once asked my babies - why did you choose not to stay?

I had no idea then that babies are conscious beings and have a choice too. It was my baby Rosa who opened me up to this possibility, myself, my gifts as a healer, channel and spirit baby medium and my life purpose of supporting women to conceive, pregnancy, loss and birth.

Baby loss can have a long-lasting effect on how we feel about ourselves and any future pregnancies. Finding peace with the trauma and answers to our why and connecting with our babies in spirit offers the opportunity for deep healing and more than that - a gateway to knowing yourself and life on a whole other level.

If you feel called to explore this further there are so many ways I can support you on your healing journey. Head to my website to learn more. I am here for you so please do get in touch if you feel ready.

14/10/2026

A message from your babies in spirit for the wave of light. I hope it brings you comfort and light.

Please do book in for your personal communication and connection with your unborn baby. (Link in bio)

From Rosa, one of my spirit babies and guide.

"We are holding you in so much light as you light your own candles of remembrance this month. There is always a wave of light to connect to, not just now, but always whenever you feel us near, wish us near, and for your own broken hearts to heal in the love we are and the love we bring.

For we are never truly gone, only in a different time and space to where you are right now. But that does not mean we are not with you in other ways.

For these are the ways we are choosing to lift you, open you and hold you right now, as you once hoped for us. But it is not us that needs remembering. It is you, all you are, all you came here to be, all the gentle ways in which you can hold yourself in the love you feel for us.

And so do this my dears as you join with the light and know that light is for you just as much as it is for us. It is love, only love that matters here and that love is for you. Can you feel it? Can you receive it for yourselves?

For we are surely thinking of you just as much as you are thinking of us and all we feel is love, not burden or shame, blame or not enoughness, for that is not the case. All we ever see of you, is love.

And so it is.
Rosa
x

With love
Debra
X

13/10/2026

✨ Is this Pregnancy Circle for me?

This pregnancy circle is for any pregnant woman who would love a moment of stillness with herself and her baby in the womb. Whether you're curious, seeking clarity, or simply want to be held in a room with other women on the same path.

✨ How the evening will run

The circle will open together, with an opportunity to share how you're feeling, what's on your mind and what you'd love to receive from this circle gathering. Only if you wish, no obligation!

I'll then guide you through a meditation to connect and communicate with your baby, through images, words, feelings, or simply a knowing. There's no right way to receive their messages.

You can come with questions, or come with nothing at all and see what arrives. If it feels right for the group, we may pull some cards and tune into any messages together. Every circle finds its own shape. The babies, I find, often like to lead.

💫 Where: Revive Studio, Balham. The Snug
💫 When: Wednesday 21st October
💫 Time: 6:15pm – 8:00pm (doors open from 6:10 to settle in, we close gently by 8pm)
💫 Investment: £18
💫Max 6 women — small and intimate by design

To find out more and to reserve your space in our circle, head to the link in my bio or send me a message. I am very happy to answer any questions you may have so please do get in touch and ask away. I really hope you will be able to join us.

12/10/2026

No better boost and inspiration than hanging out with women in business who support women in pregnancy, birth and beyond.

The world really will be ok 😘

Also love a trip up north and the wild beaches!

Thank you Carla Lett for bringing us altogether.

09/10/2026

It is so lovely to reflect on the magical evening that was the Power of Us. It was a huge step for me to speak on that stage, but I loved every second of it. Thank you to for creating the space where I felt ready to do that, with your power of vision.

I feel so privileged to do the work that I do. I am so grateful for the opportunity to work with so many wonderful women and to share their journeys with them. I'm always happy to offer a free discovery call to anyone who is thinking they might like to work with me: a call gives us the time to chat about where you are energetically and to map out your possible next steps, and also gives you a chance to discover whether working with me feels right for you. Do send me a message if you would like to book a call or ask any questions.

And if you get the opportunity to step out of your comfort zone like I did at the Power of Us, I really hope you will feel ready to say yes!

08/10/2026

Join me for my Pregnancy Circle, a gentle, intimate in-person circle for pregnant women to pause, connect with how they're feeling in their pregnancy, about birth and motherhood and meet their baby in the womb. You don't need to do anything to be in connection with your baby, you already are.

This circle goes beautifully beyond a normal circle: as a spirit baby medium, I'll guide you into direct communication with your baby in the womb. A felt sense of closeness and connection as well as an exchange of messages and communication. Questions asked and answered. Messages received. Whatever you and your baby wish to share with each other. This way of communicating continues once your baby is born.

💕 How the evening will run

The circle will open together, with an opportunity to share how you're feeling, what's on your mind and what you'd love to receive from this circle gathering. Only if you wish, no obligation!

I'll then guide you through a meditation to connect and communicate with your baby, through images, words, feelings, or simply a knowing. There's no right way to receive their messages.

You can come with questions, or come with nothing at all and see what arrives. If it feels right for the group, we may pull some cards and tune into any messages together. Every circle finds its own shape. The babies, I find, often like to lead.

💕 Where: Revive Studio, Balham. The Snug
💕 When: Wednesday 21st September
💕 Time: 6:15pm – 8:00pm (doors open from 6:10 to settle in, we close gently by 8pm)
💕 Investment: £18
💕 Max 6 women — small and intimate by design

Is this for me?

This circle is for any pregnant woman who would love a moment of stillness with herself and her baby in the womb. Whether you're curious, seeking clarity, or simply want to be held in a room with other women on the same path.

To join the pregnancy circle head to the link in my bio or send me a message. I'm always happy to answer any questions you may have before you sign up so please do get in touch and ask away! I would love you to join us.

06/10/2026

✨ To those who feel the pull of a new beginning…

Perhaps you have been on this road for a while. Perhaps you have experienced loss and now feel afraid to hope again. Perhaps something inside you senses that the path forward isn’t only physical — that there is emotional, energetic, or spiritual work to be done before you can fully open to what is coming.

You are not wrong to feel that.

Rosa’s wisdom speaks of the preparation needed to welcome new souls — the clearing of fear, of past pain, of anything that might dim the light your baby needs to feel safe coming into. This is not about being “fixed.” It is about becoming truly ready — body, heart, and spirit — to receive the life you are calling in.

The babies are there. They are watching, waiting, choosing well. And the work we do together is about making sure that when the time comes, you are standing in the fullness of yourself — open, healed, and radiant with possibility.

To find out more, head to my website or drop me a message. I offer a free clarity call to give you the chance to learn more about working with me and for you to see whether it feels right for you. Drop me a message and we can book in your free call. I would love to hear from you!

05/10/2026

Lean into support, this week's Magical Monday energy reading and distance healing. Just say yes to the beliefs below to receive.

How are you feeling about the month ahead? If it feels a little crazy sometimes, a message I channelled for my Mother's Temple membership was very reassuring!

Divine Mother said as the Feminine energy rises out of the wounds, exposing the wounds held in the masculine there will be some re-balancing going on. To notice and honour your feelings and hurts, feel the rage, express it in your own or safe space, open to healing if you wish, but absolutely do not get drawn into or feed the division between men and women. It's when we're able to heal and once again come together, we are invincible! But first it's the seeing and the healing.

In my newsletter today I shared a video message and short meditation with further insight into this - it's fascinating! (link in bio)

We are supported in all of this. This week's card and energy offers you the gift of support, allow yourself to lean into the energy this week, feel and be held.

As the world continues to change with different energies flooding the planet, many things are falling away. This is creating a little chaos and is a big adjustment for us all.

It’s for these reasons I opened The Mother’s Temple. (link in bio) But for now, feeling supported, having the tools to support yourself, and if and when you can, others, is the way forward here to help find some balance.

Lean into the energy this week, feel and allow yourself to be held. You really are. The Universe has your back, the earth is holding you, spirit, and if you're on a journey to motherhood, your spirit baby/s offer - physical, spiritual, and emotional support – they are asking you this week to ask for support – whether from them, nature or people around you.

So many beliefs can get in the way of asking for support and believing you’ll receive it. We may find it hard to ask for help because of childhood experiences when you felt your request was seen as an inconvenience, a burden, that you were stupid, or even made someone angry.

I hope the following healing beliefs will support you in this. Just say yes and allow the energy to flow through you.

I have the highest truth and understanding of having support
I understand what it feels like to have and receive support
I know how to live my daily life with support
I know it’s possible to be supported
I am supported
I know what it feels like to receive
I know what it feel like to support others unconditionally
I know what it feels like to be assisted in every way possible to fulfil my Divine destiny
I know what it feels like to accept my Divine entitlement to help, protection, assistance, support and guidance
I know how to and choose to forgive any times where help was given to me with conditions attached
I know how to release any doubt, resistance or blocks to giving or receiving support

I know how to, I deserve to, I’m safe doing so, I allow myself to and I choose to live my daily life with this grace and ease now.

And so it is

Magical Monday blessings

Debra
x

o work with me 1-1 for soul plan healing or journeys to motherhood, channelled messages and more, please send me a DM or take a look at my website debrakilby.com for further information and to book a free clarity and support call. Really looking forward to being in touch

02/10/2026

Whether you're navigating your journey to motherhood or following a deeper thread of your soul's path, or both, because everything is your soul journey, I offer one-to-one support that is unique to you.

We follow what your soul is actually asking for. Not a generic healing process, uniquely yours, as we connect and flow with your soul energy. Through energy reading and healing, psychic insights, conversations with your soul and your guides, Soul Plan readings, spirit baby communication, channelled messages, healing to conceive or after baby loss, past life and ancestral healing,

For one-to-one support, deep healing and changing the direction of your journey to motherhood, here are some of the sessions and programmes I can offer you:

💫 Soul Plan Reading, healing and alignment with your soul's choices

💫 Soul Plan Personal Channelled Guidance

💫 Sacred Conception programme

💫 Baby loss or pregnancy after loss programme

💫 A spirit baby communication and connection call

I am always happy to answer any questions you may have, and also offer a free clarity call if you would like to find out more and discover what would work best for you. Drop me a message and we will get the ball rolling. A clarity call is your opportunity to learn more, with absolutely no obligation to take things forward. If you feel ready to start your healing journey please do get in touch.

01/10/2026

As you may know, October honours baby loss awareness. We of course honour our babies every time we have a thought of them. They, always honour us.

It was my own challenging journey to motherhood through birth trauma, three miscarriages and a medical termination, that finally had me waking up to the bigger picture, waking me up to me, and led me to my life purpose – which is healing, supporting and empowering women through pre-conception struggles and baby loss to pregnancy, connecting women to themselves and their babies so they can meet in spirit and here physically.

I remember feeling I didn’t want to heal, to understand or move on from my baby losses, I felt guilty, thinking my babies might feel I didn’t care as much about them anymore. I was also scared that by releasing them, I was losing them all over again. I discovered this isn’t the case – in fact it’s the opposite.

I am sharing this message I received from spirit as it may help you on your healing journey: “We know you are worried about taking this step of healing your loss. Almost as if you heal, you will lose the connection to the babies you lost. We want to tell you that you will only strengthen the connection but what you will also do is to release the trauma from your bodies, minds and spirits and that is what your baby wishes for you.”

If you feel ready to begin your healing journey I am here to support you. Head to my website to find out how we can work together or book a clarity call so we can talk through where you are at, and where you would like to be. You will find the links in my bio above.

You are very welcome to reach out to me at any time - just send me a message. You don't have to do this on your own.

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