09/10/2026
Living with a reactive dog can be challenging, but you’re not alone. I’d like to share my top 10 tips with you, based on 19 years of experience and education in helping families with reactive dogs like yours.
These tips are designed to support you on the other end of the reactive dog lead. Remember, your wellbeing is just as important in helping you and your dog thrive as you navigate life’s challenges together. 🐾
1. Stay Calm and Grounded: Your emotions influence your dog. Breathe deeply and slowly to slow your heart rate and relax, helping them feel more secure as well as you.
2. Be Present in the Moment: Focus on your dog’s body language and environment to respond proactively, not reactively.
3. Set Realistic Expectations: Understand that progress takes time, and celebrate small wins to stay motivated.
4. Take Breaks When Needed: Allow yourself moments to step back, reset, and recharge, staying present for your dog.
5. Learn to Let Go of Judgment: Ignore external pressures and focus on what works best for you and your dog.
6. Practice Self-Compassion: Acknowledge your efforts and recognise that you’re doing your best in challenging circumstances.
7. Establish a Support System: Connect with a holistic dog behaviourist, such as myself, who can really understand and help you, as well as friends or groups that will support your journey.
8. Educate Yourself: Learn about your dog’s behaviour to better understand their needs and responses.
9. Prepare for Walks: Plan routes and strategies to minimise stress for you and your dog.
10. Prioritise Connection: Strengthen your bond with your dog by focusing on trust, understanding, and shared experiences. You need each other after all.
Reach out for help using the link in the first comment to supercharge your journey with your reactive dog and see real change today.