21/10/2026
I think most of us have had a conversation we've been putting off.
You know the one.
โข You've thought about what you're going to say.
โข You've imagined how the other person might respond.
โข You've probably had the entire conversation in your head at least six times.
And yet you still haven't actually had it. ๐
Sometimes it's because we don't want to upset someone. Sometimes we're not sure whether we've understood the situation properly. And sometimes we're simply waiting for a better moment.
The trouble is that the perfect moment doesn't always arrive.
I've been thinking about this in relation to leadership. If someone in your team seems a little different from their usual self, you don't necessarily need a big, serious conversation. Sometimes (and possibly quite often) a simple, curious question is enough to begin, and you don't need to have all the answers before you ask it.
๐๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐๐ผ๐ ๐๐ผ๐บ๐ฒ๐ผ๐ป๐ฒ ๐๐ต๐ผ ๐ด๐ฒ๐๐ ๐ฑ๐ถ๐ณ๐ณ๐ถ๐ฐ๐๐น๐ ๐ฐ๐ผ๐ป๐๐ฒ๐ฟ๐๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป๐ ๐ผ๐๐ ๐ผ๐ณ ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐๐ฎ๐, ๐ผ๐ฟ ๐ฑ๐ผ ๐๐ผ๐ ๐๐ฒ๐ป๐ฑ ๐๐ผ ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ต๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐๐ฒ ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐บ ๐ถ๐ป ๐๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐ต๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ฑ ๐ณ๐ถ๐ฟ๐๐?