14/10/2026
Nobody prepares you for that moment. 💔
You’ve imagined what you would say. You’ve rehearsed the words, the hug, the questions.
But suddenly, you’re standing in front of her, and nothing feels right.
Do you talk about the cancer?
Do you pretend everything is normal?
Do you cry? Do you smile?
Here’s something we’ve learnt from supporting people living with cancer:
You don’t need to find the perfect words.
You don’t need to promise everything will be okay.
Sometimes, just being there is enough.
Have that coffee. Laugh together. Talk about ordinary things. Let her cry if she needs to.
Because she’s still the person you’ve always known.
She has cancer. But she is not her cancer. 🤍
At Ichor Health, Pinky supports both people living with cancer and those who love them.
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