28/10/2026
Before my very first visit to a children’s hospice, I’ll admit I was nervous.
I was warned not to do it. That it would be too difficult, too emotional. Something perhaps best left to others.
But I didn’t listen. I wanted to do it. In fact, I wanted to push myself to do something that I knew I might find incredibly difficult.
I didn’t really know what to expect, and like so many people, I had always associated hospices with end of life care.
But that first visit to The James Hopkins Trust completely changed my perception.
What I discovered was a place filled with warmth, love, laughter and kindness. Yes, there is sadness, and families facing unimaginable challenges, but there is also so much joy.
Children’s hospices are about so much more than end of life care. They are about living, making memories, supporting families and bringing happiness into the lives of children facing extraordinary challenges.
My ponies fit into these special places so beautifully. They don’t need words, they don’t judge and they expect nothing in return. Just a gentle presence, a soft nose to stroke and a little unconditional love.
I feel incredibly privileged that we get to share these precious moments.
And if there’s one thing these visits have taught me, it’s that even in the most difficult circumstances, there can still be so much happiness ♥️
