16/09/2026
What if some of what you’ve been calling love… is actually how good someone makes you feel?
Attention feels good.
Being wanted feels good.
Attraction feels good.
Validation feels good.
Excitement feels good.
And all of those things can be part of love.
But they aren’t necessarily proof of it.
That distinction matters because when the excitement changes, attention fluctuates, or familiarity replaces novelty, we can start questioning the relationship itself.
Maybe the better question isn’t only:
“How does this relationship make me feel?”
But also:
“How are we practicing love within it?”
Pleasure matters. So does attraction. So does joy.
But when we stop asking pleasure to continually prove love, we make room to understand both a little more clearly.
💬 What would change if you measured love not only by how it feels, but by how consistently you both practice it?
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