16/09/2026
Christmas is coming, so is Thanksgiving if you’re in the northern hemisphere and every year I have similar discussions with clients and friends…
You decide to go to the family dinner because you feel you “should” ~ here’s the first problem; doing something because you feel you should as opposed to wanting to is never going to sit well inside you.
To help clients work on this part, I’ll take you deep into understanding why you can’t just say no and choose to do your own thing.
Then for those that decide to go, even when they don’t want to, they find themselves up against the annual negative or hurtful comments always made by their dad/mum/sister/brother (insert whoever’s your person).
Imagine this year if it felt different.
Instead of bursting into tears and storming out of the room or holding onto it all day only to explode at your partner and kids on the way home in the car later you could instead sit there and feel the discomfort of the emotion around the comment made.
Feel the body tense, the warmth creep up your chest, neck and jaw but internally you can take a deep breath, ground your feet into the floor and hear the words said but your body doesn’t travel elsewhere.
Your body is calm, regulated and safe.
It’s not bracing to go to into battle.
It’s not tightening and restricting cutting off your breath.
You’re not fighting to survive, clenching your jaw or fighting back tears.
This is exactly what we do inside my 12 week emotional body therapy container.
We release emotions relating to past events, situations, people.
We regulate your nervous system and create safety within.
We reframe and rewire old beliefs, patterns and behaviours creating new ones that serve you better!
And loads more!
You won’t recognise yourself by Christmas and neither will anyone else at the family dinner and they’ll all be asking you for the deets on what you’ve done!
Comment “EBT” to grab one of my October intake spots to work with me. You can thank me later.