11/11/2026
Truth be told, I don't much enjoy SITTING down to have a coffee with someone.
Looking across the table... My hands want to be busy, so I drink my coffee too fast... Then I feel like I am wasting the table for the cafe, so maybe I should have ordered something to eat? But I don't want to eat right now... So then I play with my cup and spin it in circles whilst maintaining the conversation.
I'd MUCH rather be walking and talking! My head is clear, the words flow, my body is busy so I don't have to worry about what my hands are doing... And the conversation feels genuinely easier.
Yes, I'll do this with a coffee in hand too...
I've learned this year, these situation and small behaviours all align with my newly-diagnosed ADHD brain.
Makes sense! 😅
But - sorry (not sorry) to those close to me, I'm sure you also know I'm that friend who will end up pulling you on an adventure as the 'catch up' too! 😜
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