Sacred Being

04/06/2024

I have started a death doula training to be a companion on the end of life journey.

The warp and weft of my life has had a significant thread of a feeling existential melancholy. My heart resonates and breaks open with grief, with suffering, with loss. I sometimes feel the suffering of the world as a literal excruciating heart ache. And with it I feel alive, I feel love, compassion, surrender.

I can see the beauty of life more sharply with less distractions in the cold light of death's presence. To fully live and love life is knowing that death is always walking with us. A lot of my life I had been avoiding fully being alive for fear of death. Now, my quest to live the rest of my life in expansive love, ease and joy must include a capacity to be unafraid of this companion.

Going deeply into my own fear and healing has lead me to hold a love for others in our common humanity that I could not have if I had not suffered loss, pain, fear myself. Perhaps what I already do a lot is a s*x/life/soul doula, working with the fear of dying an unlived life all the time with people wanting more from their relationships, intimacy, s*xuality and life. People seek me out for s*xual services when they are looking for deeper layers of meaning and connection, hearing a calling to engage with the existential thread of sacred / soul that weaves through the mysterious unfolding of their lives.

And I want to be with others in the end of life journey with death as much as the life journey - that it is the same - we are all on an end of life journey one way or another. To be steady and present through the depths, to offer support, to share the joy of the dark and the gifts found therein.

02/06/2024

04/05/2024

Are you looking for an opportunity to expand more into your 'blissful true nature'?

Sacred Touch & Ta**ra Mid-Winter Immersion is a rare opportunity to take five days out of time, in a state of rich, authentic connection to self and others, with nourishing food and intimacy, love and opening in a beautiful setting. Mid-winter supports us to go inward, journey ecstatically to the inner & outer Temples. This is the fifth version of this offering and each time is unique and transformational as the group forms and the container is created.

If this resonates for you please join us in the magical Waitakere ranges in Auckland.

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or feel free to PM 🙏❤ Kim Saama Sacred Being

19/02/2024

Yup... That just happened. I got cancelled.

I was going to present a Sacred Touch workshop at the Splore Festival.... A workshop where there would be almost no touch..an intro to the world of holding each other in respectful devotion, communicating and deeply listening to each other's needs and wants, finding a healthy no and yes and respecting each other's yes and no.

I was internally preparing myself.
I'm not really into festivals where Consent and Boundaries is not a mandatory workshop... Where alcohol and drugs put people in a state that may be unable to be conscious in their relating and interactions... So I was happy to be able to communicate consent and boundaries in such a space and hopefully improve people's experience of interfacing with each other... And being human.

Apparently because I organise and present workshops in the field of sacred conscious s*xuality - where consent is mandatory - I need to be cancelled. It wasn't the fault of the organisers by the way. They were sent emails with very old and actually unfactual reports from an online group called "Culty something's" that are persecuting many groups and people in the field of Conscious S*xuality.

It's ridiculous.
They don't know me.
My heart breaks for the world that continues to create trauma at places that won't openly discuss these topics.
And therefore why I believe in this body of work.
I care for and work with people needing support and healing.

I believe I do what I do to create more consciousness and love.
I pray that I will serve love every time I organise or offer my work.
I am not perfect but I'm always listening and willing to engage with others and understand better, do better.
I choose to stand with others who feel the same way...ISTA faculty is self-reflective, has accountability and external meditation, has internal reflections and processes.

So I have found myself with an extra few days off.. For spaciousness and contemplation. That's not so bad.

PS It's so funny that the header for my search on Cancel Culture is abbreviated to Cancel Cult 😂. It does indeed feel like an misinformed, unethical cult to me ✅

18/01/2024

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07/01/2024

There is so much beauty and honor of service. Every time I am transported with the grace of offering.

I was sent this by a recent client .. I'm so grateful.

"Absolutely amazing.  I was made to feel so welcome and wanted when we met and talked.

The massage was so sensual and erotic. I felt so nurtured and connected to and to my inner self.
Your massage was more than I could truly have expected .

You are such a caring and beautiful person and such a loving Soul.

I so look forward to being again in Sacred Temple.

Peter."

15/08/2023

Yes! The distress caused by performance anxiety is debilitating.

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12/07/2023

The pressure to be a digital media feel these days is intense... I'm so happy to have this guy speaking into it!

I absolutely love what I do and being with clients or workshops.... Needing to compress it into little techno snippets of self promoting cleverness is SO DISTRESSING for some of us ❤️‍🔥

23/05/2023

There is such a tenderness of being exposed online. Once it's out there it's available to be filtered through so many interpretations.

Therefore I'm vulnerably sharing this as the first interview I have done. It was easeful and even fun with this beautiful waahine toa Kara Leah

There’s so much juicy content in here folks! Kim and I talked energetic or***ms, astral s*x, hedonism, aging as a spiritual practice, yoni mapping AND a**l m...

04/05/2023

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01/04/2023

Throughout our lives we experience spontaneous desire and responsive arousal. And we have a tendancy toward one or the other.

This simple difference can make a world of misunderstandings between lovers.

With couples I find it's often a key to reigniting with their potential for s*xual connection as they learn each other's way of being.

28/02/2023

"You are comprised of 84 minerals, 23 Elements, and 8 gallons of water spread across 38 trillion cells.
You have been built up from nothing by the spare parts of the Earth you have consumed, according to a set of instructions hidden in a double helix and small enough to be carried by a s***m. You are recycled butterflies, plants, rocks, streams, firewood, wolf fur, and shark teeth, broken down to their smallest parts and rebuilt into our planet’s most complex living thing.
You are not living on Earth. You are Earth."

~Aubrey Marcus

art: Malene Reynolds Laugesen

27/02/2023

I love this post.
It so beautifully describes how I feel about intimacy and understanding the potential for deep connecting that my encounter with neo-Ta**ra has brought into my world.
It is why I offer spaces where others can experience more intimacy.

"Intimacy starts long before even kissing or touching someone. It starts with energy…how you feel when you see your partner, if you really let them see you, and feel where you are. Do you let them see you are hurting, angry or outrageously joyous? Intimacy can start with a look, the way you move your body, how you eat your food while looking at them.

And intimacy starts long before the clothes come off, in fact, I’d say 90% of intimacy is with our clothes on and how we connect…share, touch, laugh, and cry with each other…on the phone, in person. Intimacy is how much we allow ourselves to be seen in the moment, feel into each other, this can be with a friend, lover and even pet.
Sometimes we can go deep with no words at all and sometimes with the deepest, truest words we’ve ever shared with someone.
I have witnessed people crack wide open because their partner has shared their deepest truth with them.

How willing are you to be seen and felt in all of you? Share what you really want and need? Connect heart to heart.

Some of the most intimate times in my life have been silent- in dance, eye gazing, caressing and then the complete opposite of share my heart completely verbally.

I was talking to someone the other day, about relationship and s*x and she said “people don’t usually talk about this topic. It is like it is forbidden”, she was relieved to be talking about it. She is right, so many don’t talk about it, and it is time for us to talk about the hard stuff, the “forbidden stuff”, as what is hidden grows mold and gets bigger, and when we shed light on it, start talking about it even a little bit, it can start to heal. Our fears get less big instead or grow huge, our dreams can get bigger instead of die inside of us. Our intimate lives can get better instead of shrink inside of us.

Many people feel Ta**ra is all about s*x, when really I see it as a path to intimacy, connection, authenticity and it is a spiritual practice of being in the moment and being present with what is…I’d say this is intimacy, with self and others".

Heather Rhea
Ta***ic S*xuality

14/02/2023

It is with immense gratitude that I post this feedback video from a participant at the last Sacred Touch retreat. It takes courage to come and be vulnerable with a group of people and even more to share this with us so that others might decide to do the same!

05/02/2023

This resonates with me.

For these last 5 years I've dared to live my truth and my life has become more and more of an adventure.

Coming out as working directly with s*xuality and intimacy, aligning with transformative personal development.

I love to support others to live their truth and find their authentic expression ❤️

Speaker: Jordan Peterson

24/12/2022

And for the lingam lovers...

https://www.gilhedley.com Here Gil illustrates on the whiteboard and comments upon several of the amazing properties of the fo****in. For on camera dissecti...

24/12/2022

Mere Kirihimete to you .... Or blessings for whatever you celebrate as the planet come to the end of 2022.

A little s*x geek anatomy for the holidays 🎄

https://www.gilhedley.com Here with whiteboard illustrations and a precious silver model I outline the details of the anatomy of the cl****is, explaining the...

27/11/2022

You really want to watch this 👌

"Bonk" author Mary Roach delves into obscure scientific research, some of it centuries old, to make 10 surprising claims about s*xual climax, ranging from th...