02/14/2024
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Maybe it sounded good in the movie, āJerry Maguireā but looking for someone else to complete you is dangerous. It means you are bringing to the table a broken piece you hope they can fix. This is how many codependent relationships form, making the other person āthe saviorā, the one that needs to heal and fix all your past hurts, pain, and drama. This can also lead to making someone and idol - signs of this are phrases like, āYou are my everythingā āI could never live without youā āBefore you there was no meā. When a person is āGodā in your life you can lose your whole identity in someone else, this might sound romantic in movies, but in real life itās called a toxic relationship. God is the only one who can fix the broken pieces of the heart. He able to heal you so deep, so that, what you bring to the table is already whole.
When two whole/complete people, who know who they are come together, knowing who God is and they donāt try to find that savior in each other ā¦ it removes the unfair expectations.
When a man or woman loves God first, it makes all the difference in how well they love you!
