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Which slide sounded most like you? Save this one for the next time you catch yourself doing it. πŸ”–
10/15/2026

Which slide sounded most like you?
Save this one for the next time you catch yourself doing it. πŸ”–

Where does your energy go that nobody else sees? One word is fine.
10/13/2026

Where does your energy go that nobody else sees? One word is fine.

Which one made you wince a little? Drop the number.
10/08/2026

Which one made you wince a little? Drop the number.

High achievers rarely lose energy to the work. They lose it to the second-guessing, the rewriting, the "I'll start once ...
10/06/2026

High achievers rarely lose energy to the work. They lose it to the second-guessing, the rewriting, the "I'll start once it's perfect," and the tired you feel before you've even begun.

Which one takes the most out of you: overthinking, perfectionism, or procrastinating?

Some of the most capable people I know are running on empty. Not because they're doing too much, but because part of the...
10/01/2026

Some of the most capable people I know are running on empty. Not because they're doing too much, but because part of their energy goes to fighting themselves. Does this sound familiar? Yes or no is enough. πŸ‘‡

A question I hear a lot: "If I stop being hard on myself, won't I lose my motivation to change?"It's a reasonable worry ...
09/29/2026

A question I hear a lot: "If I stop being hard on myself, won't I lose my motivation to change?"

It's a reasonable worry β€” it assumes shame and self-criticism are what keep us moving forward. But clinically, I tend to see the opposite. Self-criticism uses up the energy and attention you'd otherwise have for noticing opportunities and acting on them.

Confidence isn't usually the reward for progress. More often, it's what makes progress possible in the first place.

Following along? This is one of several ideas I'll be unpacking here in the coming weeks.

Here's something I ask clients to try on: self-acceptance doesn't have to be earned through improvement.That doesn't mea...
09/24/2026

Here's something I ask clients to try on: self-acceptance doesn't have to be earned through improvement.
That doesn't mean giving up on the goals or changes you want to make. It means untangling your sense of worth from whether you've completed them yet β€” recognizing what's already working, and treating what hasn't changed as information, not proof you're failing.
In my experience, clients who can hold both β€” acceptance of where they are and intention for where they're going β€” end up with more capacity for change, not less.
More on this soon β€” follow to keep up.

I see this pattern often in my work: the moment someone hits a goal, another is already installed in its place β€” often b...
09/22/2026

I see this pattern often in my work: the moment someone hits a goal, another is already installed in its place β€” often before they've let themselves feel good about the first one.

That's the self-improvement cycle, and underneath it is a target we can never actually reach: perfection. Chased indefinitely, this pattern doesn't build self-acceptance. It builds anxiety, self-doubt, and eventually exhaustion.

Naming the pattern is usually the first step toward interrupting it.

If this sounds familiar, follow for more β€” I'll be sharing more of this work here.

Self-acceptance isn't something you earn by fixing yourself first.Many of my clients start out believing those two thing...
09/17/2026

Self-acceptance isn't something you earn by fixing yourself first.

Many of my clients start out believing those two things happen in order: correct the flaw, then feel worthy. In practice, that becomes a cycle with no finish line β€” the moment one goal is met, another "flaw" quietly takes its place.

Here's the premise worth sitting with: you are already exactly who you're supposed to be, right now. Not contingent on the next change.

What shifts if you treat self-acceptance as a starting point, not something you're working toward?

Follow along for more on the psychology behind self-acceptance and self-sabotage.

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