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Inner Nature Ecotherapy Inner Nature Ecotherapy promotes meaningful engagement with the natural world and restorative practices for mind, body and spirit.

Deidre Everist, MS, LCPC is a psychotherapist licensed in Maryland. She works with individuals and couples in indoor and outdoor settings to help them thrive in relationship with self, others and the natural world.

10/01/2026

"Rainbows are made of small raindrops.
Happy lives are made from acts of kindness."
~Amit Ray



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Charter for Compassion

10/01/2026

At 52, Maria Sibylla Merian sold all her belongings to study caterpillars.

She sailed from Amsterdam to Suriname in 1699 with her youngest
daughter, Dorothea. The journey was self-financed, and they were not
traveling with a husband or a university expedition. Merian went
because preserved specimens in European collections could not answer
the questions she had been asking since she raised silkworms at
thirteen: What did each caterpillar eat? Where did it form a pupa?
What emerged, and how were these lives connected to the plants around
them?

For two years, mother and daughter collected, raised, observed and
painted insects and plants around Paramaribo and nearby plantations.
Illness forced them home in 1701, but they returned with notes,
sketches and specimens. Four years later, Merian published a
monumental volume more than half a metre tall containing 60 engraved
plates.

The image here is one of them. It does not isolate a moth against an
empty page. It shows caterpillars eating a host plant, a pupa between
forms, and the winged adults that emerge. A damaged leaf is not
background decoration; it records a relationship. Merian made
transformation visible as a process unfolding within a living
community.

She did not make that knowledge alone. The Rijksmuseum notes that
Indigenous people and enslaved Africans collected plants and insects
for her and helped identify and name them. Merian recorded some of
their plant knowledge and repeatedly criticized the cruelty of Dutch
slaveholders. Her published work bears her name, but an honest telling
must also keep those unnamed contributors inside the frame.

That makes the plates more than beautiful pictures. They preserve a
change in how a human being looked at the smallest lives: not as
isolated curiosities, but as participants in a web of nourishment,
shelter, transformation and dependence.

Modern science often becomes most truthful when it stops removing a
being from its relationships long enough to forget those relationships
exist. Merian crossed an ocean to follow caterpillars. What she
brought home was a way of seeing life whole.

10/01/2026

Sequoia National Park in California 😍

10/01/2026
10/01/2026

There were once billions of passenger pigeons. Then there was only Martha.

The birds moved across eastern North America in flocks so immense that
witnesses described them darkening the sky for days. They nested in
colonies where a single tree could hold scores of nests. Their
abundance seemed almost beyond measure—and that made it easy for
people to mistake abundance for permanence.

Commercial hunters killed passenger pigeons on an industrial scale.
Forest clearing damaged the vast breeding habitat on which their
enormous colonies depended. The flocks collapsed with startling speed.
By 1900, the last confirmed wild passenger pigeon had been recorded. A
few remained in captivity.

Martha lived at the Cincinnati Zoo from 1902. After her two male
companions died in 1910, she was believed to be the only passenger
pigeon left alive. Visitors came in long lines to see her: one small
bird carrying the final living presence of a species that had once
filled a continent’s sky.

On September 1, 1914, keepers found Martha dead on the floor of her
cage. She was about 29 years old. Zoo staff froze her body inside a
300-pound block of ice and sent it by train to the Smithsonian, where
it was preserved. Decades earlier, no train could have carried the
number of passenger pigeons that crossed overhead in a single
migration. Now one train carried the last known body.

Martha’s story is not powerful because she knowingly represented her
species; we cannot place that burden inside her mind. It is powerful
because people could finally see, in one living animal, what numbers
had concealed. A species can be common enough to seem inexhaustible
and still be vulnerable to the speed and scale of human action.

Extinction is often spoken of as a statistic. For passenger pigeons,
it ended with a bird who had a name, perched alone where billions had
once flown together.

10/01/2026

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10/01/2026

The Trap of Being “Low Maintenance”

There are people who rarely ask for anything. They do not complain when plans change, they say “it’s fine” when it really isn’t, and they would rather adjust themselves than make someone else uncomfortable. They are often described as easygoing, independent, and low maintenance.

Sometimes that is simply who they are. But sometimes “I don’t need much” is something a person learned because asking for too much once felt inconvenient, unwelcome, or even unsafe.

Over time, they become very good at making themselves easy to accommodate. They notice when someone else is tired, busy, or stressed, and quickly decide that their own needs can wait. Even asking for something small can bring a strange feeling of guilt as though having a need means becoming a burden.

The problem is that other people may never realize what is happening. If you always say you are fine, people eventually believe you. If you never ask for help, they may assume you do not need it. Your sacrifices can become invisible because you have become so good at hiding them.

This is where being “low maintenance” can become a trap. You can spend years avoiding inconvenience to others while quietly becoming resentful that nobody notices what you need. But people cannot always respond to needs they have never been allowed to see.

Being considerate is not the same as constantly abandoning yourself and independence does not mean believing you should never need anyone. Perhaps the healthier question is not, “How little can I need from other people?” but, “Can I tell the people I love what I need without feeling guilty for having needs at all?”

You do not become a burden because you sometimes need reassurance, attention, help, or care.

Sometimes the person who seems easiest to be around is simply the person who has spent the longest time learning how not to ask for anything.

Have you ever realized that you, or someone close to you, was not actually “low maintenance,” but simply very good at not expressing what they needed?

Painting: 'Interior with Young Woman Seen from the Back', 1904 by Vilhelm Hammershøi

08/23/2026

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08/23/2026

“You cannot share your life with a dog … or a cat, and not know perfectly well that animals have personalities and minds and feelings.”
Jane Goodall

Shinya Okayama - Waltz for Little Birds.

08/17/2026

"Neither genius, fame, nor love shows the greatness of the soul. Only kindness can do that."
Jean Baptiste Henri Lacordaire

Artist: Paula's Imaginarium

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