10/24/2026
Being alone and feeling alone are not the same thing. In an always-connected world, I think we sometimes forget the value of intentionally spending time by ourselves.
Solitude creates space away from other people’s opinions, expectations, and demands. It gives us a chance to hear our own thoughts and notice what we actually need. Loneliness, on the other hand, comes from feeling disconnected, something we can experience even when surrounded by others.
We need meaningful relationships, but we also need to be comfortable in our own company. Learning when we need connection and when we need space is part of learning to listen to ourselves.