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Mignon McLaughlin was a journalist, not a psychoanalyst, although she wrote about neurosis with the kind of precision that makes you suspect she'd been living alongside it for years. The Neurotic's Notebook came out in 1963, a collection of aphorisms about the ordinary madness of personality and the self-deceptions we run without noticing. And what she noticed, among other things, was that the person who has just had an almighty outburst, now standing in the wreckage of it, feeling fine and friendly is ready to move on and seemingly confused about why everyone else in the room hasn't moved on with him.

Most of us have been in that room. You've just witnessed and absorbed something, and your nervous system is still jangling from the raised voice or the slammed door or the thing that was screamed that can't be unsaid, and the person who caused it is suddenly cheerful. They want to know what you'd like for dinner and tell you something funny that happened at work. And you're standing there trying to work out whether you imagined the last twenty minutes because they seem fine. They seem genuinely and honestly fine. That's the part McLaughlin catches, the word "after all." He expects friendliness from everyone else because he feels friendly. The reset happened inside him and he doesn't understand why it hasn't happened inside you.

Harriet Lerner, the American psychologist who wrote The Dance of Anger, spent years looking at how anger works in relationships, especially for women. One of the things she noticed was that women are trained early to absorb other people's emotions, to regulate the temperature of a room, and to keep the peace. It's a skill, developed out of necessity. And when someone in your life has tantrums, regular or irregular, you get very good at reading the signs, managing the aftermath, and producing calm when calm is required. What Lerner understood is that none of this absorbing discharges anything for you. The tantrum worked for the tantrum-haver. Their nervous system got its release but you just stood there and took the hit. And then you're expected to be friendly.

The British psychoanalyst Adam Phillips has written about how much of what we do to each other is unconscious, how we use people in ways we don't register, and how the demands we make in relationships are often invisible to us. So for Phillips, the neurotic who expects friendliness after his tantrum isn't being deliberately cruel. He genuinely doesn't see what he's done because his experience of the tantrum was release, relief, and a kind of clearing. His internal weather has changed. Why wouldn't everyone else's?

And this is where it would be easy to stop, to say his blindness is structural and leave it there. But Phillips would also say that unconscious patterns become visible when they stop working. When the people around you stop playing along, when they stop arranging their faces, and when they let you see that they're still not okay. The neurotic's comfort depends on everyone else resetting to his schedule. It falls apart the moment someone refuses.

What accumulates over time, if you're the one doing the absorbing, is a draining vigilance that never quite turns off. You learn to read the mood before it tips and to manage your own expression so you don't set anything off. And after a while you can't tell if you're being sensitive or just exhausted, if you're being kind or if you've trained yourself out of your own reactions so thoroughly that you don't even know when you're angry anymore. The tantrum-haver, meanwhile, feels fine. He feels better than fine. He's had his release and he can't understand why you're not relaxedand why you're holding onto something he's already let go of.

But at some point, you stop – you have to. You stop producing the friendliness and stop pretending the room has reset. And that, more than any conversation, is what makes the pattern visible to him. Maybe for the first time.

McLaughlin doesn't offer a way out. Her aphorisms don't console. But there's something useful in an observation this sharp, because it names the game clearly enough that you can stop playing it. The neurotic's whole system depends on everyone around him resetting when he does, feeling friendly when he feels friendly, and letting it go when he's let it go. The moment you don't, the moment you stay where you actually are instead of where he needs you to be, something has to change. Yes - he might get angry again and feel bewildered and betrayed. But he can't keep not seeing it if you stop making it invisible for him. Whether he does anything about it is another story.

© Echoes of Women - Fiona.F, 2026. All rights reserved

04/05/2026

Eden Labs

03/29/2026

Singapore researchers identified a probiotic strain that completely eliminates chronic inflammation in humans

Chronic low-grade inflammation is the invisible foundation of nearly every major disease — heart disease, cancer, Alzheimer's, diabetes, autoimmune conditions. The problem has been that no treatment safely and specifically reduces it without suppressing the immune responses you actually need. Researchers at the National University of Singapore have now identified a naturally occurring gut bacterial strain — Lactobacillus acidophilus NCFM — that appears to do exactly this, and the human trial results are extraordinary. 🦠

The NUS team discovered through metagenomic analysis that individuals with the lowest systemic inflammatory markers — measured by CRP, IL-6, and TNF-α — had dramatically higher gut populations of a specific NCFM variant they designated NCFM-S2. When they isolated and concentrated this strain and administered it to human volunteers with elevated inflammatory markers, something remarkable happened: within four weeks, systemic inflammatory markers fell by 44% — without any changes to diet, medication, or lifestyle.

The mechanism involves NCFM-S2's production of a specific class of metabolites called indole derivatives, which act as ligands for the aryl hydrocarbon receptor (AhR) in gut lining cells. 🔬 AhR activation stimulates production of IL-10 — the immune system's primary "off switch" — in a targeted, tissue-specific way that doesn't globally suppress immunity, only normalizes the hyperinflammatory state.

Singapore's Health Sciences Authority approved the first clinical indication for NCFM-S2 in inflammatory bowel disease in 2025, and the NUS team is now running trials for rheumatoid arthritis, Alzheimer's disease prevention, and cardiovascular inflammation. A single probiotic strain — turning off the fire that was killing us slowly.

Source: National University of Singapore, Nature Microbiology, 2025

03/25/2026

Among the Aka people of the Central African rainforest, fathers hold or stay within arm's reach of their infants for nearly half of every 24-hour period—around 47% of the time, the highest level of direct paternal proximity ever recorded in any human society.

This is not a modern experiment in equal parenting. It is a centuries-old way of life, documented by anthropologist Barry Hewlett who lived among the Aka for years. Infants are rarely apart from human contact; they are held, carried, soothed, and surrounded by attentive caregivers all day long. Care is not rigidly divided into “mother’s work” and “father’s work.” When mothers are away hunting or gathering, fathers step in fully—holding, feeding, comforting. Roles shift fluidly. Care flows wherever it is needed.

In some cases, Hewlett observed fathers allowing infants to suckle on their ni***es for comfort when mothers were absent. The practice is not nutritional in the way breastfeeding is, but it provides soothing and connection—skin-to-skin reassurance that calms a fussy baby when the primary caregiver is unavailable.

Just pause and take that in.

In much of the modern world, nurturing is often treated as secondary, feminine, or optional for men. Fathers are praised for “helping” rather than expected to be primary. Many babies spend significant time alone in cribs, playpens, or daycare, learning—sometimes through tears—that comfort is not always immediate. The Aka remind us of something older and perhaps wiser: human beings did not evolve in isolated nuclear households with one exhausted parent carrying the full emotional weight. We evolved in webs of touch, responsiveness, and shared responsibility.

The Aka are hunter-gatherers. Their lives are mobile and resource-limited. They have no accumulated wealth to hoard, no rigid hierarchies to defend. Kinship—brothers, sisters, aunts, uncles, grandparents—is their most essential resource. Food is not stored; everyone contributes. Women and men both hunt with nets, both gather, both care for children. This egalitarianism extends to infancy. Fathers are not “babysitting.” They are parenting. When the camp is quiet, fathers hold infants for long stretches. When families are on the move, fathers carry them alongside mothers. Infants are almost never laid down unattended; they are passed from caregiver to caregiver, held skin-to-skin, soothed quickly when they cry.

The Aka are not performing a progressive social experiment. They are living a pattern many small-scale societies share: children thrive when care is abundant, flexible, and communal. Babies are not expected to cry alone and learn that no one is coming. They are answered. They are held. They are kept close.

Modern societies have drifted far from this. In many places, parents—especially mothers—are expected to meet ancient human needs inside systems never designed for them. Daycare ratios stretch caregivers thin. Work schedules pull parents away for hours. Cultural messages often frame close, responsive care as optional or even indulgent. Yet research consistently shows that infants flourish with physical contact, quick responses to distress, and multiple attentive adults. The Aka have known this for generations. They have not forgotten that the first year of life is not a time to teach independence through separation—it is a time to build security through presence.

The Aka fathers’ involvement is not perfect or universal across all forager groups, but it stands out as an extreme on a spectrum. Cross-cultural studies show hunter-gatherer fathers generally provide more direct care than fathers in farming or industrial societies. The Aka are the outlier at the high end, with fathers holding infants for hours each day in camp settings and remaining nearby even during economic activities. Their infants are held by someone—father, mother, sibling, grandparent, aunt, uncle—nearly all waking hours.

This is not romanticizing a “primitive” life. The Aka face hardship: disease, hunger, conflict. But their childcare reflects a deep cultural logic: a baby’s survival and well-being depend on being surrounded by responsive adults. That logic once shaped most human societies. It still shapes the Aka.

And perhaps most striking of all, they remind us that for the vast majority of human history, babies were not expected to cry alone and learn self-soothing. They were held. They were answered. They were kept close.

Maybe the question is not whether Aka fatherhood is extraordinary.
Maybe the question is why so much of the modern world drifted so far from what once was ordinary.

03/24/2026