06/24/2024
Many people are looking for more and trying to do more, be more and have more, but that can feel exhausting if itās out of sync with who we are at our core.
What if everything you needed was already inside of you and that it was just about bringing that to the surface? What if the best thing to do was to nourish what you already have because that would not only allow you to do, be and have more but contribute to the world in the best way as well?
Of course there is work to do, but the basic raw materials you need are already there, inside of you. You donāt need to be anybody else or get something you donāt already have. Itās about building yourself from where you are already in order to polish up the unearthed gifts youāve been hiding from the world.
Maybe youāre afraid that there might be a more direct way to get to your goal, but if you go that route you wonāt know what to do with yourself when youāre not creating busy work and stressed out all the time.
Maybe you donāt want to be noticed.
Maybe you donāt want the additional responsibility.
Or maybe it seems like living your dream is just that⦠JUST A DREAM and that it will never come to fruition. (Thatās sad and couldnāt be further from the truth)
We all have our own fear of success and/or fear of failure and thatās ok, but letting that get in the way any longer is a disservice to the world.
So how does one actually nourish themselves and take the first step toward doing, being and having more from a place of strength?
Well, not to sound trite or cliche but every great journey begins with the first step.
So⦠Taking the first step:
Identify the goal
Identify the first step toward that goal
Take that first step.
Then, reflect, rehearse & repeat.
Getting clear on the goal is about meditation, reflection, journaling and such and that holds true for identifying the first step as well, though identifying the first step is more of a best guess at the time. Itās often a gut feeling for me that Iāve learned to trust over time.
Then, in order to actually take the first step I work on things like changing my narrative/story, identifying the type of internal language I use and how to upgrade that. Then itās largely about just taking action. Just take the first step no matter how bad or awkward or uncomfortable it feels.
Look before you leap, but leap.
Then I approach my āfailuresā with curiosity and patience in order to learn and use my new perspective to see how I will try it next time.
If at first you donāt succeed, try and try again (in different ways of course :) )
And thatās how I uncover my hidden inner treasure. :)