05/12/2026
I started noticing this pattern with clients who were the āI know what to doā women.
The women who had spent YEARS being able to pull things together anytime they wanted results.
Need to lean out a little?
Cool.
Eat less.
Do some extra cardio.
Problem solved.
And honestly? That probably did work for a long time.
Which is why perimenopause feels so confusing.
Because now theyāre doing the SAME thingsā¦and their body is basically responding with....āabsolutely not.ā
Recovery feels terrible.
Workouts feel harder.
Cravings get louder.
Fat loss stalls out.
Energy disappears by 3pm.
So naturally the reaction becomes "Okay I just need to be more disciplined.ā
But thatās usually the exact point where things get worse.
PSA you're trying to use old strategies on a body with a completely different stress tolerance and recovery demand now.
And this is why I teach macros differently than most people.
Not as another thing to obsess over.
Not as food rules.
Not as a way to earn your meals.
But as feedback.
Because the better question in perimenopause usually isnāt: āHow can I eat less?ā
Itās:āAm I actually supporting the life, stress, training, and recovery demands I have right now?ā
Thatās usually when women finally stop feeling like theyāre failing all the time.
ā”ļøSave this for the next time your brain says: āMaybe I just need to cut food again.ā
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