10/06/2026
For me, October always brings a deeper sense of connection to those who came before us. As the days grow shorter and the earth settles into rest, I feel a quiet pull toward remembering, listening to, and reconnecting with my ancestral roots. 🍂🕯️
I believe our ancestors are always close. We have the ability to speak to them, honor them, and feel their presence in many ways. Whether it’s through a familiar recipe, a song, a dream, or the way our hands move just like our grandmother’s.
Through October and November I invite you to give that connection a little more attention as well. Consider lighting a candle, placing a photograph beside flowers, or preparing a meal they loved. Don’t forget to say their names, tell their stories, and allow remembrance to become a small, but loving, ritual.
Across many cultures and countries, curating a relationship with the dead is woven into everyday life. Love continues through prayers, offerings, tending graves, and keeping traditions alive. Those who have passed always have a place at the table and in the heart.
This season, take some time to notice the parts of yourself that may be connected to your ancestors; the way you relate to rest, your fears around having enough, the tendency to put everyone else first, or even grief that you’ve never found the words for. Make room for their courage, creativity, tenderness, and ability to find joy through hardship that they passed down to you.
We can honor our ancestors while still choosing to break their patterns that hurt us. And we can love them without taking on their burdens.
When we start to heal ourselves, we can also begin to let go of some of what we’ve carried from the people who came before us; and with that, we can make life a little lighter for ourselves and for those who come after us. We can also give ourselves the rest they lacked, the chance to say what they couldn’t, and the kindness they deserved.
May these months bring us closer to our roots, with room to grow in our own direction. 🤍