Healing Trauma Through Spirit

10/21/2026

Why am I voting for Andrea James for MA Governor ?

www.ajforma.com

10/21/2026

Talking about case in recent months triggered a lot in me in my physical body in regards to parallels in my story and countless others in Plymouth County Courts.

It has caused my physical body to display weakness in my legs, twitching, severe fatigue and other nervous system dysregulation.

While my mind is tired, it wants to keep moving forward.

I didn't live what I lived through spanning 5 decades but more recently last 21yrs for nothing.

I am not supposed to stay silent. I am not supposed to take my experience, my lessons, my wisdom, my resilience to my grave.

My body just needs breaks.

As it is, it doesn't do well with EMFs, wifi, Social media push to produce content.

With that said, I don't see myself talking about much just because it hits home with me and all I have fought for in protection of women and children since 2005 including the corruption.

I am working on compiling my files with evidence for a substack hopefully soon. So stay tuned.

10/21/2026

About them judges in Plymouth County.

More coming with receipts. Will be posted on Substack

I'll be sharing more with receipts on Substack. Some that might inv...

10/20/2026

Hi Friends,
I've had to take a break from all this posting about Lindsay Clancy.

I am not a "social media influencer" per say.

I just have a personal story + 21 years experience in Plymouth County Courts including court watching and data collection and lobbying legislators for stronger protections for victims of domestic violence who has witnessed multiple times court overreach that harmed and/or corruption.

I will be writing on Substack the links with judicial behavior in Plymouth County since 2008. That with what I know or have been privy too.

This information put me in prison to silence me. They took away any assets I had and trafficked my children to a documented abuser.

The price is REAL!!!

This matters to understand the Lindsay Clancy case.

You sleuths are welcome to my data I disclose publicly with respect in sharing or using to give proper credit when due what all I've put together.

Doing this work is exhausting and endurance is everything when going up against powerful people.

So please respect the foundations some of us have laid out for you so you can do your profiting social media influencer thing.

This is personal to me and countless other mothers and children harmed by these courts.

Be sensitive to that and the price some of us have paid to still speak trurh to power.

With care,
Laura Bonetzky-Gaffney

Author, Podcast Host of Triggers And Spiritual Medicine, Multi-Generational Multi-Disciplinary Healer & Intuitive, Activist, Trauma & Abuse Educator, Spiritual Teacher, Jikiden Reiki Teacher, End of Life Care Guide, Crone Witch, Ceremonialist, Spiritual Medium, Ireland Pilgrimage Facilitator, Plant Medicine Lover, Mother, Grandmother, Spiritual Guide

Addressing Root Issues and Reclaiming Ancestral Power

10/20/2026

"𝙁𝙤𝙧 𝙖 𝙇𝙤𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙁𝙪𝙩𝙪𝙧𝙚 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙏𝙧𝙪𝙩𝙝 𝙏𝙚𝙡𝙡𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙖𝙨 𝙈𝙚𝙙𝙞𝙘𝙞𝙣𝙚."

In this episode of 𝙏𝙧𝙞𝙜𝙜𝙚𝙧𝙨 𝘼𝙣𝙙 𝙎𝙥𝙞𝙧𝙞𝙩𝙪𝙖𝙡 𝙈𝙚𝙙𝙞𝙘𝙞𝙣𝙚, Laura sits down with Sayra Pinto, founder of A Loving Future and creator of Poetic Futurism, for a raw, wide-ranging conversation about truth-telling as medicine.

They start with the triggers:
the emotional weight of recent headlines, the ways race gets weaponized in political discourse, and the isolation that comes from speaking hard truths in activist and healing spaces.

From there, we move into the medicine Sayra's framework of Poetic Futurism, which calls us to own our reality, tell the truth, and tend to the consequences of our actions in order to build something sustainable.

Together they explore the deep threads connecting domestic violence, colonialism, and generational trauma; the harm that can happen even within healing and social justice communities; and what authentic solidarity looks like when it's not performative.

Sayra shares how cross-partisan friendships and unlikely alliances have deepened her faith in people, even amid painful ruptures and professional loss.

This is a conversation about staying rooted when the world pulls you in every direction and choosing connection over division, every time.

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🔗 Learn more about Sayra's work at lovingfuture.org

🔗 www.LauraHealingWithSpirit.com

10/20/2026

I've been fighting to keep my head above water most of my life due to -
▪︎ domestic violence in the home as a child
▪︎ SA at 12 & 15
▪︎ drugged by 4 men at 22
▪︎ fired at 23 for asking my manager to keep his hands off of me
▪︎ 26yo marrying my abuser in 1997
▪︎ Separated in 2005. Divorced in 2007 (6mo shy of 10yrs ... no one told me why that's important)
▪︎ Lost custody EXPARTE by a judge removed by FBI for corruption despite case file labeled as DV
▪︎ UNlawful incarceration w/o a crime, w/o arrest, w/o my right to a lawyer in 2013 as part of litigation & post separation abuse
▪︎ free from family court sanctioned abuse in October 1, 2024

All of this triggered CPTSD

Remarried on June 21, 2025 to a man who doesn't try to control me, respects my boundaries and sovereignty and honors my journey. That's love.

Last week, I celebrated 20yrs of Healing With Spirit and 21yrs doing domestic violence advocacy.

This work wears on one's soul after a while

I am tired AND we have just begun.

My hope is to pass the torch via 1:1, groups, teaching, and training the younger generations all I know and pass on the wisdom, sovereignty, power.

💜 In Massachusetts, I will be voting for the ONLY governor candidate who have worked to protect women and children from harm while addressing root causes, government accountability and transparency. That is Andrea James for Governor (I) for Massachusetts.

She brings choice. She brings hope. She brings change.

💜 We are going to need your support after we refile the litigation abuse bill here in Massachusetts.

Follow for more updates or subscribe for free to my substack.

With care,
Laura Bonetzky-Gaffney

Author, Podcast Host of Triggers And Spiritual Medicine, Multi-Generational Multi-Disciplinary Healer & Intuitive, Activist, Trauma & Abuse Educator, Spiritual Teacher, Jikiden Reiki Teacher, End of Life Care Guide, Crone Witch, Ceremonialist, Spiritual Medium, Ireland Pilgrimage Facilitator, Plant Medicine Lover, Mother, Grandmother, Spiritual Guide

Addressing Root Issues and Reclaiming Ancestral Power

Repost 1st graphic from Nadia Cullinan | Online Coach

10/17/2026

Just a reminder, an innocent person doesn't have to go on TV for an interview or hire a lawyer to threaten people questioning what happened IF ... IF ... they are INNOCENT.

10/16/2026

Triggers and Spiritual Medicine
In this episode, Laura sits down with Sayra Pinto, founder of A Loving Future and creator of Poetic Futurism, for a raw, wide-ranging conversation about truth-telling as medicine.

They start with the triggers: the emotional weight of recent headlines, the ways race gets weaponized in political discourse, and the isolation that comes from speaking hard truths in activist and healing spaces. From there, we move into the medicine Sayra's framework of Poetic Futurism, which calls us to own our reality, tell the truth, and tend to the consequences of our actions in order to build something sustainable.

Together they explore the deep threads connecting domestic violence, colonialism, and generational trauma; the harm that can happen even within healing and social justice communities; and what authentic solidarity looks like when it's not performative. Sayra shares how cross-partisan friendships and unlikely alliances have deepened her faith in people, even amid painful ruptures and professional loss.

This is a conversation about staying rooted when the world pulls you in every direction and choosing connection over division, every time.

💛 If this episode moved you, please follow or subscribe so you never miss what's next, and share it with someone who needs to hear it. Your reviews and shares help this work and these hard, necessary conversations, reach further.

🔗 Learn more about Sayra's work at lovingfuture.org
🔗 www.LauraHealingWithSpirit.com

10/16/2026

For a Loving Future &
Truth-Telling as Medicine