Mary Makes Muscles

Mary Makes Muscles I help women and men become self-confident & resilient by building a stronger body & mind through strength training, nutrition training, and mindset coaching.
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If you're looking to get started with strength training, check out my YouTube page for some simple exercise tutorials. 💪
06/07/2023

If you're looking to get started with strength training, check out my YouTube page for some simple exercise tutorials. 💪

Weight loss coach. IG: .makes.musclesWebsite: marymakesmuscles.com You can find my 1:1 coaching application there.Follow me on Instagram and tiktok for ...

There is a new article up on my websiteHead to the link below to read ithttps://marymakesmuscles.com/articles/f/5-ways-t...
01/30/2023

There is a new article up on my website

Head to the link below to read it

https://marymakesmuscles.com/articles/f/5-ways-to-achieve-anything

In this article, I give you 5 actionable ways to make sure you achieve your goals

While you’re there, please look around my website and at my other articles

You’ll find great information there to help you on your fitness journey

Let me know if you read it and what you think

Thank you and talk to you soon!

Mary

Never let this happenLife is going to throw curve balls at you, that’s impossible to avoidThings won’t go as plannedI’m ...
01/23/2023

Never let this happen

Life is going to throw curve balls at you, that’s impossible to avoid

Things won’t go as planned

I’m going to give an example.

Say you came to me for coaching and wanted to lose 20 lbs

I’ve said this before, but somewhere around 1 lbs per week is a good average rate of weight loss

So how long should it take to lose those 20 lbs?

You’re probably thinking, 20 weeks of course

Nope

If someone tells me 20 lbs, I’ll tell them around 30-35 weeks to see the end result they want

Why?

Because we’re not robots

You will miss a workout here and there

You’ll go out to eat with friends and go over your calories

Stuff happens

And that’s not a bad thing, it’s just life

Because even though you miss a workout or go over your calories

As long as you don’t use that as an excuse to quit, you will get to your goals

It might take “longer” than you expect

But it actually won’t, because you’ll actually achieve your goals in those 30 weeks instead of what would have happened if you quit

So don’t be confused and think you have to be perfect

And now that you know you don’t have to be perfect, you have no excuse to quit

Your only option is to keep going.

You got this

Consistency is key when it comes to your nutrition habits and seeing results.Here are 5 ways to improve yours:1. Have a ...
01/16/2023

Consistency is key when it comes to your nutrition habits and seeing results.

Here are 5 ways to improve yours:

1. Have a plan. No matter what, you can make a plan. It doesn’t need to be the perfect plan, but when you have an outline and general idea of how your nutrition will look going into the day. You’re immediately at an advantage.

2. Set realistic expectations. Not just for your outcomes you want, but for what action you can take. Your plan has to work for your life in order for you to be consistent with it.

3. Have a go-to list of minimum things you always do. These actions might seem small, but done consistently they build the habits you need to make progress. Reference this list on days you are unmotivated and don’t feel like doing anything. Doing something is all you need to do to keep going.

4. Know that there will be off track days. They’re inevitable. Don’t let them stop you or make you think you’ve failed. And don’t use them as an excuse to quit. Just keep going.

5. Stop calling yourself inconsistent. What you tell yourself becomes reality. Speak to yourself in a positive way, and tell yourself that you are now someone who is consistent.

You got this!

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If you would like to lose body fat, let's break this down.Because the truth is, it can be simplified down to one thing.A...
01/14/2023

If you would like to lose body fat, let's break this down.

Because the truth is, it can be simplified down to one thing.

A calorie deficit.

If you're not losing weight, it's because you're not in a calorie deficit.

It doesn't matter how many carbs you're eating.

Or what supplements you're taking
Or how much cardio you're doing
Or if you're eating clean or doing keto

If you aren't in a calorie deficit, you will not lose weight.

But I said it was simple, not easy.

So before you worry about any of the things listed above, embrace the simple things.

✅️ Start to track your nutrition
✅️ Set a reasonable calorie goal that you can be consistent with
✅️ Increase your protein portion sizes with your meals
✅️ Eat primarily nutrient-dense, whole foods
✅️ Walk daily
✅️ Strength train
✅️ Get quality sleep

Do these things consistently and be patient
Keep repeating all those things and you will get there

I hope this helps!

Talk to you soon
Mary

Most people won’t read this caption.But if you are one of the few who does, let’s get into it.These are some things we n...
12/26/2022

Most people won’t read this caption.

But if you are one of the few who does, let’s get into it.

These are some things we need to normalize when it comes to fitness.

Women can and SHOULD lift heavy ass weights.

The days of doing constant cardio are over.

Lift heavy, you’re stronger than you think you are.

It’s really fun, plus you’ll feel like a total bad ass.
Second, let’s normalize celebrating your own wins.

It doesn't matter how big or small you think they are.

Every win is a big win, because the small ones add up.

It could be adding 5 lbs to one of your lifts. Or fitting into a new pants size. It could be saying no to a certain food sometimes, and enjoying it without guilt the others.

Pat yourself on the back. Because you rock and deserve to be recognized!

Third thing to know: changing your body composition isn’t always easy or fun.

And that’s okay.

You’re not going to get through this without any effort.

If it were easy, everyone would do it.

Sometimes you’ll have to make sacrifices.

But in the end it will be worth it.

Finally - I promise you, losing the last 5-10 lbs isn’t as cool as you think it is.

It won’t make your life any better.

It might actually make it worse. Because it requires MORE sacrifice than you want to make and can keep up with in the long run.

Screw those last 5-10 lbs. Channel that energy to lifting heavier or getting your first pull up.

Those things are way cooler.

So you read the whole caption?

Let’s go!!!

Let me know, and let’s normalize these 4 things.

-Mary

Who has been guilty of putting too much emphasis on the scale?🙋‍♀️The scale does play a role in progress, but it is just...
12/23/2022

Who has been guilty of putting too much emphasis on the scale?

🙋‍♀️

The scale does play a role in progress, but it is just one part of MANY different factors in this whole deal.

Sometimes the scale won’t change but MANY other things are happening.

And let’s not forget how important your relationship with food is for long term success.

I would argue it’s the MOST important factor when it comes to progress.

Here’s something to try:

Copy the list above on a sheet of paper.

And for every week you feel one of them happening, put a check mark next to them.
This will help you stop ONLY looking at the scale.

Put some energy into the above things.
Celebrate all your wins, not just the scale.
And enjoy the process.

You got this!

If you're looking for a plan to reach your weight loss goals, and get strong, fit, and confident; my 1:1 coaching progra...
12/21/2022

If you're looking for a plan to reach your weight loss goals, and get strong, fit, and confident; my 1:1 coaching program can do those things for you.

When you're ready to learn more and get started, fill out this application below so I can get in touch with you and see if we're a good fit to work together.

https://marymakesmuscles.com/1%3A1-coaching-application

Questions? Just send me a DM or comment below! ❤️💪

12/21/2022

This is a great exercise for your hamstrings and glutes.
You can really load them up because the landmine secures one end of the barbell and that can work to stabilize you on this challenging single leg exercise
Here's how to do it:
Insert the barbell into a landmine attachment.
If you don't have one, you can wedge the barbell on the floor in the corner of a room.
Just put a small towel or pillow down to keep it from tearing up the wall.
Another "hack" is to cut a tennis ball in half and put it on the end of the barbell, then place it against the wall.
Works great.
Once you have the barbell set up for a landmine, grab the other end of the barbell in the position shown in the video.
You'll want to hold it with your "inside" hand (hand that is closer to the landmine)
Next, get your shoulder back and down away from your ear, and keep the back of your armpit squeezed on the side that's holding the weight.
Brace your core, and now you're ready to get moving.
The movement comes from pushing your hips back.
Don't think about reaching down with the weight.
The weight stays close to your body and is only moving down because your hips are going back.
Stay strong and stay stable.
The leg that is closest to the base of the landmine comes off the ground and travels up towards the ceiling.
The other leg stays planted, and keep a slight bend in that knee.
Push those hips back, keep that armpit squeezed shut.
Once you feel a big stretch in the back of your planted leg, and your hips won't go back any further.
You've found your range of motion and can stop.
Pause for a second. Then bring your hips forward to come back up.
You're not standing up with your lower back, think hips forward.
When you get to the top, squeeze that butt cheek of the same side as your planted leg.
Keep your chin tucked the whole time too, and go get some gains!
Add 3 sets per leg at about 6-10 reps early/mid-workout on your leg days.
Push yourself and get stronger!

Stop doing this.We are less than 2 weeks from a new year and you’re probably thinking about new years resolutions.Rememb...
12/19/2022

Stop doing this.
We are less than 2 weeks from a new year and you’re probably thinking about new years resolutions.
Remember this:
You aren’t going to knock your current house down and rebuild a mansion in one day.
It’s a process, there are procedures involved.
First you have to safely clear the ground before you can even start to lay the foundation.
The same thing applies to your fitness goals.
You can not completely overhaul your entire life and habits overnight, or in one week, or one month.
It’s not going to happen.
Instead of trying to workout 7 days a week, change your eating habits, and cut out all sweets in the span of 2 days.
Why not take things slow?
Focus on a week of weighing your food and tracking your calories.
Then the next week, focus on hitting your calorie target.
Then the next week, add in hitting your protein goal.
Get really good at those things week after week. Succeed at them. And build up confidence.
Before you add anything else.
That is how the process works.
Building confidence in yourself and seeing yourself succeed creates motivation to keep going and make changes.
But if you try to change everything at once, the opposite happens.
You get overwhelmed, burn out, and think you failed. So you quit.
Avoid that. Take things slow. Make small changes.
Your results might start “slower” in the short term.
But will actually be faster long term because this time around they are here to stay.
You got this!
- Mary

This is really important because people will spend their entire life chasing a number on the scale.Or chasing “the last ...
12/15/2022

This is really important because people will spend their entire life chasing a number on the scale.

Or chasing “the last 5-10 lbs” that are so hard to lose.

When in reality, it is a futile effort.

Because you’ll never win.

If it is draining to get to that number you have in mind, and requires massive effort and sacrifice, maintaining it will be near impossible when and if you do get there.

But I’ve seen many times where people think they need to weigh let’s say 140 lbs

But then through strength training, they start to build muscle.

They start to lift weights, get stronger and feel great.

And they love the way they look, feel great, and their workout performance is awesome at 150 lbs.

But in their mind they’re fixated on that 140 lbs because they haven’t “reached their goal weight” yet.

Let go of that.

Take your “goal body weight” with a grain of salt.

Because there are so many other factors that are more important than what a little number that changes everyday is.

Keep that in mind and don’t sacrifice your joy for the number you see on the scale.

Sound good?

Talk to you soon.
Mary

Sign up for my email list and you'll immediately receive my FREE Guide To Fat Loss.You'll also be part of my VIP email l...
12/14/2022

Sign up for my email list and you'll immediately receive my FREE Guide To Fat Loss.

You'll also be part of my VIP email list, where you'll have early access to coaching offers, workout videos, mindset tips, recipes, stories, and MORE.

Sign up here:
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I’m not talking about an occasional off track day or things that come up sometimes.I’m talking about continuously statin...
12/11/2022

I’m not talking about an occasional off track day or things that come up sometimes.

I’m talking about continuously stating you want something to be different, but not doing anything about it.

Therefore nothing changes.

Fact: being “all talk” won’t get you very far.

Another fact: you prioritize things that are important to you.

So if your health and fitness is important, you'll make time for it.

Wishing and wanting isn’t enough.

You need to take action.

Even if it is messy action at the beginning.

If this is overwhelming and you don’t know where to begin. Start small and take baby steps.

No one achieves change overnight.

Just show up. Day after day and keep promises to yourself.

A great strategy is to set some non-negotiables to keep you healthy, strong and fit.

Her are mine: 30-minutes of outdoor movement per day, and eating 2 pieces of fruit and 2 servings of veggies per day.

SHARE your non-negotiables below. It will probably help others to see them and give them ideas for themselves.

The hardest part is just starting.We usually play things up in our mind to be harder than they actually are.Whether it’s...
12/06/2022

The hardest part is just starting.

We usually play things up in our mind to be harder than they actually are.

Whether it’s cooking dinner.
Or doing a workout.
Or taking a walk.
Whatever it is.

You aren’t going to feel worse for doing something positive.

The key is to just begin.

A hack for that is to pull up the clock app on your phone and go to the timer.

Plug in 5 minutes, and press start.

And then go.

Do something for 5 minutes.

It doesn’t matter what you choose, the key is to just start something positive.

If after 5 minutes you want to go sit back down on the couch and scroll through Instagram, do that.

But chances are, that after you start something you will want to keep going.

It will seem less daunting.

And if you stop and all you do is the 5 minutes, that is still better than zero minutes.

Remember this the next time you are feeling unmotivated to do something.

It will pay off in the long run, I promise.

Talk to you soon ❤️💪

- Mary

Knowing these 4 things would have saved me a lot of stress at the beginning of my own fitness journey.I hope sharing the...
12/04/2022

Knowing these 4 things would have saved me a lot of stress at the beginning of my own fitness journey.
I hope sharing them with you today, will make yours easier.
Let’s talk about how to apply them.
1 - It’s not a good idea to try to change everything at once.
Rather than doing that, pick 1-2 habits at a time to focus on.
Maybe for the first few weeks you add 2 10-minute walks to your day and make sure you include a high-quality protein source with every meal.
Once you’ve gotten used to that, you think about adding other habits like tracking your calories or strength training 3x a week.
If you try to take on too much at once, it will be overwhelming and you’re much more likely to quit.
Start small to get big results.
2- Let go of the deadlines.
You have enough of those in life. And when it comes to losing weight, thinking you need to do it fast will only stress you out and be discouraging.
Again, focus on your action and building habits. Make consistency your goal instead of outcomes.
3- It’s not just okay to make mistakes, but they are a good thing.
They are an opportunity to learn so that the next time, you’ll know what to do.
Reflect on your mistakes and use them to grow.
No one is perfect, and the only way to improve and ultimately hit your goals is to keep going.
4 - Motivation isn’t going to get you very far.
And it especially won’t carry you through the hard times. There will be hard times.
This is where having an action list is beneficial.
Make a list of 3 to 4 things that you can do when you’re not feeling motivated.
And on those times when you don’t feel like doing your workout, or making a healthy meal, look at that list.
And do one thing on that list to get you up and moving.
The list might say to drink a big glass of water. Or put your shoes on so you can go for a walk. Or do 20 squats. Or eat a piece of fruit.
Just something, to get you moving in the right direction and off your .
This is your go-to list for when you are feeling unmotivated.
Use these tips to help you out on your weight loss journey.
And follow me for more practical fitness advice!
Talk to you soon.
Mary

I'll be hosting a free webinar on Tuesday night about how to navigate holiday eating.Here is what we will cover in the w...
12/04/2022

I'll be hosting a free webinar on Tuesday night about how to navigate holiday eating.

Here is what we will cover in the webinar:

* Understanding why you struggle to stay on track over the holidays
* How to shift your mindset
* Tips and tricks for handling holiday food pressures
* How to enjoy holiday parties and still prioritize your health and fitness goals

If you're interested in joining me, visit this link:

https://marymakesmuscles.com/free-webinar

And of course you can send me a message if you have any questions!

Have a great weekend and talk to you soon! ❤️💪

This is an edition of 𝙬𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙣𝙤𝙩 𝙩𝙤 𝙙𝙤.⁣⁣𝗙𝗶𝗿𝘀𝘁 of all is eating under 1000 calories a day.⁣⁣Please don't do that.⁣⁣I get t...
11/22/2022

This is an edition of 𝙬𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙣𝙤𝙩 𝙩𝙤 𝙙𝙤.⁣

𝗙𝗶𝗿𝘀𝘁 of all is eating under 1000 calories a day.⁣

Please don't do that.⁣

I get that some women are shorter with a smaller frame, and have to eat 1200 calories a day to lose weight.⁣

And that is a select few who are 4'11 or under.⁣

But never have I seen anyone who needs to eat under 1200.⁣

It's just not necessary and is too low to sustain.⁣

𝗦𝗲𝗰𝗼𝗻𝗱, is to use exercise as a way to punish yourself for eating.⁣

Whether it's certain foods, food groups, or a certain amount of food.⁣

This is never a good idea and will build a very bad relationship with food.⁣

Food is food, and you didn't do anything wrong because you eat a cookie or a piece of pie.⁣

Stay consistent and 𝘴𝘵𝘢𝘺 𝘤𝘩𝘪𝘭𝘭𝘦𝘥 about it.⁣

𝗡𝗲𝘅𝘁, is to cut out entire food groups.⁣

This just makes you want them more.⁣

The moment a food or food group becomes "off-limits", it's never going to end well.⁣

Not to mention that all the food groups have very important vitamins and minerals that you need for your health.⁣

𝗙𝗼𝘂𝗿𝘁𝗵, is thinking not eating all day is a "win".⁣

So many people think this is a good thing for their diet.⁣

No, because at night you will be freaking starving and end up over eating.⁣

Start eating more during the day.⁣

𝗟𝗮𝘀𝘁𝗹𝘆, never think you are a failure if the scale goes up.⁣

The scale isn't going to go down every single day.⁣

It will always fluctuate.⁣

And that is normal and okay.⁣

Don't freak out.⁣

𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗴𝗼𝘁 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀! ❤️💪⁣

- Mary⁣

There is a new article up on my website! 😁👍In it I tell you all about what it really means to build motivation.If you've...
11/20/2022

There is a new article up on my website! 😁👍

In it I tell you all about what it really means to build motivation.

If you've struggled with getting motivated, or achieving the change you want when it comes to your weight loss goals, this article will help you out.

Head to this link to read it:
https://marymakesmuscles.com/articles/f/how-to-build-motivation-to-lose-weight

While you're on my website, you can look around and even check out the other 50+ articles I've written.

If you read it, let me know! ❤️

And if you have any questions or need anything from me, send me a message or leave it here in the comments.

Talk to you soon! 💪💪
- Mary

1:1 Coaching specials are available now!DM me to learn more, or visit here to apply.https://marymakesmuscles.com/1%3A1-c...
11/19/2022

1:1 Coaching specials are available now!

DM me to learn more, or visit here to apply.

https://marymakesmuscles.com/1%3A1-coaching-application

Be signing up you will:

✅ Begin to implement new habits
✅ Get stronger
✅ Build confidence
✅ Develop consistency
✅ And feel better!

Do all these things without having to cut out your favorite foods

You’ll have a plan in place to start feeling confident and fit.

There is no reason to wait, there will never be a “perfect” time.

The key is to just START.

I’m here and ready to help and would love to hear from you.

DM me any questions you have or to learn more!

Have a great day!
Mary

Hi there!I just wanted to take a moment of your day to say thank you.Thank you for following me, thank you for supportin...
11/16/2022

Hi there!
I just wanted to take a moment of your day to say thank you.
Thank you for following me, thank you for supporting me, and for any kind message or comments you send me.
Without you reading this, I would have no one to share my passion for health and fitness with, and I appreciate you.
I also want to take a moment to tell you a little about me, and how I got to where I am today as an online fitness coach.
I started my own health and fitness journey in 2019.
But it actually began long before that with many years of frustration due to misinformation about what it takes to live a fit and healthy life.
Before 2019, I thought being healthy meant being restrictive.
I thought it meant punishing myself for eating "bad" foods or for overindulging.
My whole life and outlook on healthy living changed when I started to focus on what I could give to myself instead of what I needed to take away.
I started to show myself more compassion and add back to my own life instead of taking away.
I started to focus on getting stronger, getting more sleep, and eating more nutritious foods that made me feel good.
Instead of constantly trying to break myself down, I started to build myself up.
And that is why I'm here, to share what I learned with you.
I want to make an impact and help you feel your best and set you free from a life of restrictive dieting.
I want to help you create change in your life.
And having you follow me and support me lets me know that I am doing that, at least I hope I am.
I am a coach, and I offer a 1:1 nutrition and strength training coaching program that will help you achieve the change you want, with structure and accountability.
It takes all the guesswork out of you for your nutrition and workouts, and teaches you how to make sustainable progress with your health and fitness goals.
I don't do a lot of "selling" to you, because you know the deal.
I'm here for 1:1 coaching if you are interested. All you have to do is send me a DM or visit the link in my bio.
But no matter what, I am here to help you in any way I can and appreciate you a ton.
And I want to succeed and reach your goals and be happy more than anything.
Send me a message anytime if you want to chat or have any struggles on your journey you'd like some help with.
Have a great day and I'll talk to you soon!
Mary

Did you overdo it this weekend?Have more appetizers than you intended to?I’m here to tell you this:You don’t need to “ma...
11/14/2022

Did you overdo it this weekend?

Have more appetizers than you intended to?

I’m here to tell you this:

You don’t need to “make up for it”

You don’t need to fix anything.

You definitely don’t need to punish yourself for it by doing hours of cardio or restricting your food even more.

One weekend won’t define your journey.

This is a game of consistency, not perfection.
If you can bounce back after an off-track weekend, and get right back to normal, that is enough.

Then use the weekend to learn what you can do differently next time.

Ask yourself why you overate.

Did you restrict too much during the week and you “snapped” by the time the weekend came around?

Did you not fill up on protein and veggies early in the day to control your eating later on when you went out?

Did you drink too much alcohol and not enough water?

Did you arrive at a party starving instead of having a healthy snack beforehand?

Whatever it is that caused the overeating, reflect on it and decide what you can change next time.

And in the meantime this week, don’t punish yourself for what is already done.

Punishing yourself means that you did something wrong. You didn’t do anything wrong. Just get right back to it and move on.

You got this.

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