10/12/2026
š„DE-PROGRAMMINGš„
āWhen youāve had to fight to know your truth, you see fake for the costly threat that it is.ā ~Nate Postlethwait
As you go through your day, observe without judgment all the little and big ways you betray yourself with inauthenticity and untruth.
All the ways you go along(to get along) with something you donāt want to go along with, just āto keep the peace.ā
The ways you laugh at things you donāt even find funny.
The ways you make yourself small to not draw unnecessary attention.
The ways you agree with things you donāt agree with in order to belong, to not lose your place in the group or team or company or family.
All the things you pretend to care about, because your āsupposedā to care about them.
The people you spend time with that you donāt even like ā and who probably donāt like you, either.
The role you still play that no longer fits (or never fit in the first place) because āthis is who Iāve always been to them; itās what they expect.ā
The ways you stuff your words further down your throat, for fear of actually speaking your truth.
The ways you abandon the desires of your heart and the natural curiosity of your brain.
Observe all the ways. Add them up.
How much energy are you spending maintaining any form of a faƧade?
Are you tired yet?
How exhausted do you need to be?
You have the power to take your energy back. And take your life back.
Taking your life back doesnāt start with them. It starts with YOU.
All this "people pleasing" keeps you disconnected from your authenticity and sovereignty.
You deserve happy and healthy relationships!!!
šNomadic Niniš